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Old 12-22-16, 02:32 AM
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Re: Not feeling loved or liked

How things change with time...

liked: yes
loved: yes, well and true, for who I am...the real deal...gobsmacked, I am.


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Re: Not feeling loved or liked

Here is the freeing thing I discovered. What people think of me is none of my business. easier said then done. One day dealing with a "friend" who always handed out advice with words like "You should" "you need to" and "do this" I told her that if she didnt have the ability to listen instead of try and run the show to go f**k herself. It had major shock value and the friendship fell away. But other people I have had to get this harsh with back off and reassess their motives and have even apologized to me! Now there is a time and place- I wouldnt tell a social worker to go f** themselves but not many are immune.
Its the truth. I am who I am and I am a good person trying to do the next right thing. If its not what they think I should be doing well f**K THEM. They are not me.

Also many of the advice givers fail to heed their own advice.
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We all have the desire to be liked by others
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Re: Not feeling loved or liked

I don't want to cry, I may not be able to stop.
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