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They are very unlikely to judge. They deal with difficult problems every day. Some people judge. But if a person is going to judge you, they will do it anyway, regardless of what you tell them. There is NO way to prevent it. The worst and harshest judgment I've ever seen in medical situations has been when an anxious person decided not to reveal the whole truth. The doctor doesn't know why the person is afraid - all the doctor sees in that case is a liar. When you tell the WHOLE truth to the doctor, taking special care to include all the parts that make you look bad, they will trust you far more, and judge you far less. And the judgers, who will always judge anyway, can go fart in the litter tray. ![]()
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Another trip down to A n E. Fuzzling violently threw up all evening. The doctors couldn't figure out what's wrong. Could be a bug, could be another allergy, who knows??
I've been so tired and weepy all day long ..and that was before the projectile vomiting started. I'm hart getting rime to do the basics like cut her finger nails. She's clawing both her and my skin open with those claws of hers. I'm exhausted and I'm almost scared of what challenges tomorrow will bring... |
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Feels to me like you are being judged harshly and unecessarily. Defense mechanisms are important. Not disclosing fully everything about yourself at the first appointment with a therapist isn't necessarily evidence of dishonesty. Not everyone is deserving of our full trust and it could actually be harmful to you/someone. You are entitled to own your sense of timing, to be reluctant, to test the waters.
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A doctor doesn't have to conclude the person is a liar based on a sense the person hasn't divulged everything-even when she hasn't. If the doctor doesn't know why the patient is afraid, she can choose among a bunch of possibilities that may influence the patient's hesitancy and then to look into that matter in time. Many of us are afraid in the presence of a stranger when she is seeking to learn about our most private thoughts and personal feelings and experiences. Sponsors, clergy, best friends, etc., can be helpful when we need to unload, too. |
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Me too, though my challenges are different. Thanks for offering this |
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(((((((Midsy)))))))
I'm sorry that I've been so upfront and a bit harsh tonight Mid Mids ![]() It really does stem from a place of concern. (((Mids))) I think you're going to do great with the phone call tomorrow and I'm SO looking forward to your future. I think this is a major step you're taking and that it'll very much so end up being a positive one at that (even though it wont feel that way at all at first...therapy isn't easy...but it is (when done correctly with a competent professional) good). I'm with DVD too when he thanked you for sharing all of this...it helps others out there who may be struggling with similar feelings and realities to see that they're not alone. You working it out openly here on the forums can absolutely give others strength. (((Hugs))) /adores his Midsy.
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HEY LOOK! IT'S MY FUZZY WUZZY BEAR!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() /bear e-(((hugs))) his Wuzzy!!! (((((((((((((((((((((WUZZY))))))))))))))))))))) ...OH NO! Wuzz? Wuzzy??? You doing okay there! WAKE UP WUZZY! I DIDN'T MEAN TO SQUEEZE SO HARD! It's just...it's been like an entire week since I've e-(((hugged))) you! DO YOU KNOW HOW FREAKING LONG THAT IS!!? It's like at least a million times infinity plus 10 divided by infinity plus 1!!! ... Plus infinity! And awww ![]() ![]() I hope she gets well soon. I don't even want to try to imagine how scary it is as a parent to see a child get sick like this. Bleh My eldest niece use to claw herself real bad...so my sister bought these cute little mittens for her to wear which worked out great. ... Oh and p.s. I was watching a cute compilation of goofy birds on youtube earlier and was thinking of you and your 2 brats lol. How are the 2 budgies doing? =======EDIT:======= This one! lol
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Did i talk too much about it on addf? Heading to work now, phone call after work, on bus now, cant see if making sense on phone
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I will have to thank posts when on laptop, phone not liking thanks today
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![]() And no, you certainly didn't talk about it too much. lol I SO want to go to work with you just to bug you! (((((((Midsy))))))) I hope you have a great day at work!
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