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Old 05-10-19, 05:06 AM
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Hello, taking the first steps, venting, input?

Mostly just trying to get it down. Some background. I am 47 years old. I have suffered depression and social anxiety most of my life. In elementary school I did well, always aced all the standardized tests, 99th percentiles across the board. Did my homework in the morning at school that is when I didn’t lose it. When we got a new math teacher in 5 th grade who expected more from us than the last one, I fell behind. As soon as it got to things I just didn’t somehow “know” I tuned out. I tried, but I could not follow the lessons and I gave up. My mind would go elsewhere. Once in 4th grade, I tore through a standardized test, it was the Iowa test or the California test, the point is the school got funding in part based on the results of these tests so everyone took them so seriously. The test was proctored by the vice principle. I turned in my phone test after 20 minutes and he yelled at me and called me out for not taking the test seriously and demanded I take it back and look it over. I spent the rest of the 2 hours pretending to do that while feeling terrible. How dare I show how smart I was. That test was 99th percentile also.

When I hit high school everything got much harder. Now there were different classes, different teachers, different expectations, multiple subjects to keep organized and that was killing me. I was always losing assignments, waiting until the night before to do weeks long projects, etc. I got by just barely.

I still procrastinate. It’s like I need the urgency of a crisis to focus well and at that point I can. I do very well in a crisis in fact.

My mind is always a flurry of activity, lots of threads running at once. Extrapolating every upcoming event with a thousand possibilities, worrying about things. Imagining all the things I want to do. Reliving the past, endless grinding over problems I’m dealing with. Once my wife took phenterimine, a stimulant for weight loss.... I took one and my mind became quiet. I could think well enough, but it was a slower, measured oceans only one thread at a time. When I had no reason to think of anything specific, it was quiet. Sounded like listening to a sea shell. It was sort of eerie, it scared me a little, but it was relaxing like my mind caught it’s breath for the first time ever.

I should add that depressants make me hyper. Percosets from surgeries, injuries always made me ultra productive actually...so it seems that stimulants calm me down and depressants make me hyper.

I don’t think I have much of the hyper pet of adhd, except I am always bouncing my leg or drumming my fingers. Sometimes I do have my mike a minute days where I seem to be more effective than others.

I still have trouble organizing. My workshop is a mess and has 15 different projects laid out, I love tinkering with things...I will work on something a bit then move on, lots of unfinished things I started at the spur of the moment and never finished. I will work on one thing a few minutes then move on to another. Eventually they get finished, but I will have the laptop playing music on YouTube because that helps me concentrate, and I will go to change the song and get caught up on some sidebar suggestion then end up watching some stupid video for a few minutes then I might not get back to what I was doing before...sometimes I try to force myself to get to a certain goal point with a certain project, like I’ll think I will keep working until I have the top half of the engine taken apart. then it becomes no fun, almost painful to push myself to that point and I’m greatly relieved when I got it there and can let myself off the hook. Sometimes I can do things steady though but most of the time it’s hard.

I love to play guitar, yet when I try and sit down with a book to actually learn chords and such, I make it about 10 minutes and I get this sort of headache and get groggy. Same for other stuff that I have interests in.

I am always losing stuff. I will become paralyzed trying to think about things I have to do today, and will imagine doing all of them, sometimes never settling on one or the other, getting tired of thinking and hit the couch instead.

I have low self esteem, I’m very socially awkward. I’ve been on anti depressants for the last 18 years...depressed most of the time... lately that’s been better. I’ve been in therapy for a year now. A while back one therapist asked me if I had ever been diagnosed as bipolar...it was a day that I was talking a mile a minute and trying my hardest to get my thoughts and ideas out before our session ran out because I had a lot to say. She left the practice shortly after that visit. I read about bipolar and some of it fit so I went to see the psychiatrist and he asked me about 10 questions and proclaimed me bipolar type unspecified.

He prescribed lamictal...which helped with the depression and the social anxiety. On follow ups he’d say things like don’t stop your meds or you will wind up hospitalized. Really?!? I’ve never been hospitalized for my mental health issues. I’ve never had any manic episodes. True, some days I seem to be firing on all cylinders and seem more effective than usual. Sometimes I do go a mile a minute, but I’ve never had hallucinations or heard voices or anything. The impulsivity, the mile a minute stuff, some of the symptoms of bipolar and add cross each other.

My current therapist who I’ve seen every two weeks for 6
Months now thinks I have add, and even talked about I have shades of asbergers. She sees no bipolar issues. While the lamictal helps, it is actually used as a co medication for treatment resistant depression...so that makes sense to me.

I saw a psychologist at the practice who gave me an evaluation for add and he said He had to score it, but just looking at it he said I’d be a candidate for medication. I took this info and made an appointment with another psychiatrist hoping to explore the possibility of add. The test that the psychologist did was not in the system yet, and he did talk to me for about 10 minutes and thought I did not have add. He seemed hung up on the bipolar diagnosis that the other psychiatrist had made (in about 5 minutes and 10 questions.) he said we should wait for the test to get into the system and come back. He did mention a more comprehensive evaluation that could be done. I gave it a couple weeks and went back. The results were still not in the system. He seemed very dismissive of that evaluation, basically saying that even if he had it in his hands, he said that it doesn’t mean much since I could have just answered it however I saw fit...but this was given by a psychologist who was this same practices’add specialist.

I told him that I thought he was hung up on the bipolar thing, and that my therapist saw no signs of bipolar in me. I asked him to go ahead and set up the more extensive test, a neural psychiatric evaluation...at some other practice which means more waiting. So be it. I have to wait for them to call and go and have that done and then take THOSE results to this guy. I still need to find out what happened to my original evaluation, although my new psychiatrist has already discounted it. I suppose that in contrast to the psych that jumped to a bipolar diagnosis in 10 questions, this guy is being cautious, but it feels more like he’s already made up his mind about me.

I have good insurance, but it’s hard to shop around In this field. I’d love to find a specialist in adult add... I’ve searched but can’t find anything remotely close. Plenty of coaches and therapists, but I am really interested in trying the medication route. Please pardon the typos and bad auto corrects and general disjointedness herein. I tapped this out over the course of an entire night a bit at a time.
Thanks for letting me vent!

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Re: Hello, taking the first steps, venting, input?

Wow I just read my own post. I sounded like I was whining. I am blessed and fortunate for sure....was just upset about the psychiatrists dismissiveness. Things in my life have gotten better in many ways over the last few years, I just finally decided to try and work on myself so to speak..
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Wow I just read my own post. I sounded like I was whining. I am blessed and fortunate for sure....was just upset about the psychiatrists dismissiveness. Things in my life have gotten better in many ways over the last few years, I just finally decided to try and work on myself so to speak..
ADDF is a support forum -- don't sweat it!

It really is unfortunate when the professionals from whom we seek out help dismiss our concerns or don't listen carefully.

Have to run at the moment (or, rather, sleep!), so can't reply further tonight, but wishing you luck in your quest.
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