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Old 01-25-19, 04:39 AM
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

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Maybe you can mention that you feel they aren't taking group seriously and that that makes you uncomfortable to share yourself but I wouldn't call them out on their pot use to be honest.
nor would I, it doesn't seem like the right place for that.
also it's legal in many places now, anyway.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

Thanks guys.

I'm not so sure it's really the pot use that's really bugging me deep down...I think it's more to do with me feeling as if they're not taking the group very seriously...and especially with the guy, i feel like it's all just a joke to him...
Which leads me to not feeling comfortable. And it's very much so a group where we've been open and honest with each other and share lots of personal stuff with each other.

I don't know...
Does that make sense to you guys? Am I just being overly stuck up and judgmental? Or would you close down in a group with a member that treated the group like a joke and was only there cause they had to be?

Sometimes I feel like I'm too rigid and am overly demanding and judgmental of people.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

No I can relate to that. When i did a course on mindfulness many years ago at work we also shared a few personal things and I'd have hated it if someone was just there to fool around and mock everything. I wouldn't feel as if I was being taken seriously when I shared.

Maybe just ask him or tell him that you feel this way or tell a group member that you trust.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

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nor would I, it doesn't seem like the right place for that.
also it's legal in many places now, anyway.
Ignore him. Sometimes silence will get the point across without stirring up a fuss.
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Ignore him. Sometimes silence will get the point across without stirring up a fuss.
That's part of the problem though...is I'm finding it incredibly hard to ignore him...and I do sit there and ignore him, but I'm also sitting there upset and stewing over him and letting him interfere with what I'm wanting from the group.

I wish I was strong enough to not let him effect me and to just let him do his own thing without it changing the way I act...but I'm not.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

Thanks mids..I wanted to take bro n I snow tubing today.i was willing to drive and pay for it he said being he has to work tomorrow he didn't wanna be sore.my buddy is gone and I'm not doing that alone.it really really sucks I have no one to have fun like this with.i don't want to be or end up a loner even if I do enjoy time by myself
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Sounds like psychos group is going or has gone to pot..lmao
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Sounds like psychos group is going or has gone to pot..lmao
haha for reals!

...And I agree with Mids...you're sure as hell not a loser in my Books.

Sucks bad that you've got no one to hang with. Sorry your brother wasn't up to going out today either .

Have you ever considered adopting a puppy into your life?

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Very sad news. Our aged guinea pig, Mr. Reeces, has passed on.

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Oh no

I'm sorry Lun-Luns. That's really sad to hear. You always had such cute things to say about him.

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