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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

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Didn't catch guy he dumped car a mile away on side street in 1st person to made him n confront him..he went across lawn lost control of car hit n ran over neighbors curb.rims are all messed up n went up street doing like 80 it sounded n looked like a NASCAR it was just nuts...the cops love my car tho ;-)
Glad you got your baby back with minimal damage and no one was hurt!

Thatís such a violating and helpless feeling. I remember coming home from work to the front door being wide open and my entire house being turned upside down from a burglary.

Iíve had recurring thoughts for years of what Iíd like to have done, had I caught them in the act of destroying our home, stealing our sense of security, family heirlooms and memories. I was never mad about the money and valuables taken.

Iím still angry about the things we lost that canít be replaced.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

If I had had a gun he'd be blasted or was able to get to car hed had his butt kicked in..right now fiancee ptsd got triggered and she's really scared :-( I wish I knew how 2 make it go away or help her better
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

Rebs, I'm so sorry you guys had to go through that, and I hope your fiancee will be able to regain some peace soon.

But...wait...wait...you got engaged and have a fiancee? When? I missed that. Congratulations!!!







Bloodwork yesterday was much improved. Still not entirely in the clear, but I'm less terrified today. Thanks, all, for your support.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

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If I had had a gun he'd be blasted or was able to get to car hed had his butt kicked in..right now fiancee ptsd got triggered and she's really scared :-( I wish I knew how 2 make it go away or help her better
Dear friend, congratulations, first of all!

But with the ptsd, I don't have that but I do have problems with violent/graphic images/thoughts being triggered due to an anxiety disorder (OCD in my case).

I offer this: help her ground herself in her body, the present moment, and acknowledge her panic/distress as a real thing that's happening to her, whilst reminding her that she is safe, she will feel the ground beneath her again, and that you are there. Those are things that my partner does that I find helpful. And he NEVER tells me to "(just) calm down"...definitely avoid doing that.

Hope it helps and, again, huge congratulations on your impending nuptials! xx
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

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I wonder how Emre22 (Ems ) is doing.
He was posting alot, but hasn't been around for a few days. Hope he's doing okay.
lol I burnt out all the time here though...where I post a lot for a few days, hen just need to float away from the forums for a bit.
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Am I safe?
Who are you scared of Mid-Mids? Is it someone from your past?

Are you afraid of yourself?

Are you thinking of hurting yourself? Oh I hope not! You sure are important to me. I don't like when my Mid-Mid hurts.

I'd love to think you're safe...but I just don't know. I'm scared for you. <3 <3 <3

Maybe you can type up what's going on? Just get it out...it'll likely not help much, but at least the thoughts will no longer only be i your head and it might feel a bit like a relese for you. I often find it useful to type things up.
Or if you're uncomfortable typing it up here...how about writing it up in a notebook? You can tear up the pages afterwards if needed.
The point is to just get it out of your head.

I'm sccared for you Mid-Mids

Please stay safe, and remember that you mean a whole heck of a lo to so many people here.

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Who are you scared of Mid-Mids? Is it someone from your past?

Are you afraid of yourself?

Are you thinking of hurting yourself? Oh I hope not! You sure are important to me. I don't like when my Mid-Mid hurts.

I'd love to think you're safe...but I just don't know. I'm scared for you. <3 <3 <3

Maybe you can type up what's going on? Just get it out...it'll likely not help much, but at least the thoughts will no longer only be i your head and it might feel a bit like a relese for you. I often find it useful to type things up.
Or if you're uncomfortable typing it up here...how about writing it up in a notebook? You can tear up the pages afterwards if needed.
The point is to just get it out of your head.

I'm sccared for you Mid-Mids

Please stay safe, and remember that you mean a whole heck of a lo to so many people here.

((((((((((((((MIDSY))))))))))))))))

The abusive voices are being mean and I'm scared of them they say I killed poor Ebony and her death lies at my door, nobody else's and they say if the RSPCA find out what happened I'll have Tigger taken away and never be allowed another pet ever again


What I use to self harm is also whispering my name and the abusive voices want me to obey the self harm tool


If I adopt Dolly, the abusive voices say I'll kill her as well like I killed poor sweetpea Ebony


The bad stuff that happened to Ebony was all my fault
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