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Old 09-11-18, 05:49 PM
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

I love how my local grocery store sends me nice coupons...but then jack up the prices of those products. >.<'

I had 2 I was interested in this week. They gave me a $1 off of 2 yogurts...and I thought to myself, 'awesome! They should be just about free with this coupong!'
WRONG!
They wanted $5 for 2 of the yogurts! >.<' And they were just small freaking cups!

I got another coupon for a whole $2 off of a small box of quaker breakfast bars. I know that they usually sell for about $3 for a box so I was really excited to get a box for just a dollar or so!
WRONG!
They wanted 5 freaking dollars for the box! They pretty much wanted me to use a coupon to get it for the regular price!! Pass!!!!

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Old 09-11-18, 05:56 PM
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

I was very open to her about my feelings, told her to be honest share everything in your mind .
But i guess she is not ready, got no idea how would a single parent act
She has 1 year old daughter , very cute girl .

I think she has something in her mind but not reasy to share yet
Maybe she scares to get disappointed
Dunno there are possibilities
She is also happy with my expressüng of feelings
I asked because i don’t want to annoy her

Maybe i am too impatient

Time will tell
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

She is professional tarot fortune teller
Actually we met in a tarot group, i was doing some tarot readings in past thats how we met

She asked me , “did you open cards for us”
I said no, i said i m not interested in future anymore but can use my deck if she needs help
If she likes me , she can tell it to me , not cards

I asked same question
She said “no”
But i doubt she opened cards for us , maybe saw negative things
Dunno
I can see that she doesnt share her true thoughts and feelings

I told her , i dont want to have her, if we like each other we do
I do not scare to let go anymore

Maybe she thought i don’t give her much value, because i was almost pro tarot reader
Maybe she doesnt believe that or not sure yet about not worrying about future
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Old 09-11-18, 06:24 PM
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

Ahh nevermind , i talked to her , she didnt say “no”
She said she needs to know me
I m trying to know her, she needs to do it too

If she is expecting me to open tarot, i wont do it

Now everything depends on her
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

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Sounds frustrating . Relationships can be so complex and emotional...and it doesn't help that she doesn't seem like she's being as open and clear as you'd like for her to be.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

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Sounds frustrating . Relationships can be so complex and emotional...and it doesn't help that she doesn't seem like she's being as open and clear as you'd like for her to be.
It is okay psycho, it has been just few days
Her daughter’s father left her and child
I cant know how she thinks

But actually you are right about complexity of relationships
Thats why i prefer honesty, being very open

But it is two sided thing , i like her so probably she has her own reasons for going really really slowly
I m trying to guess reasons

Actually i m used to it lol

One of my ex was very friendly until we both decided to be in a relationship, then pretty girl became coldest person to me, asked many times whats going on
She told me she was in very heavy depression,asked story , she didnt tell
Told her about my mental health story , she said not same
We ended up lol (i decided to leave her)

I have similiar story with another ex

After this experiences , i started reading about how women think lol



I think , trust , facing with fears, being clear
These things are needed but it happens in time
And i m not patient person lol i m ADHD
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

Ahh psycho you made me realize a good point
I should tell at the beginning that i am ADHD
I forgot about it
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

But i am sure that i m not going to solve puzzle
I tried once in my life, my longest relationship , it was 1 year long
It ended up horrible

Simply , i will be honest , clear , will give sometime

But i can let go when it is needed

I cant help people who are being puzzle themselves
If it happens , i leave and i dont turn back

I have emotions too , i m not sudoku player
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

I miss our chatty feline it was all so sudden that his quality of life declined.

Fuzzy: E asked about him this morning. We reiterated what we told her yesterday: kitty was very sick and we helped him die so he's not suffering. She's only 3.5 so she doesn't understand death. She just understands that we can talk about him and look at photos of him, but he's no longer with us. I mean, I mostly think she gets that he's permanently gone, but we'll see if she continues to ask about him...

My father's cat lives with us and is similarly aged. I'm taking her in next week to have thorough preventative screening so hopefully we're better prepared for the next time. I for some reason believed cats live to be around twenty and clearly that's false. N was only 12.25 years.
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I miss our chatty feline it was all so sudden that his quality of life declined.

Fuzzy: E asked about him this morning. We reiterated what we told her yesterday: kitty was very sick and we helped him die so he's not suffering. She's only 3.5 so she doesn't understand death. She just understands that we can talk about him and look at photos of him, but he's no longer with us. I mean, I mostly think she gets that he's permanently gone, but we'll see if she continues to ask about him...

My father's cat lives with us and is similarly aged. I'm taking her in next week to have thorough preventative screening so hopefully we're better prepared for the next time. I for some reason believed cats live to be around twenty and clearly that's false. N was only 12.25 years.

(((((peri))))) cats generally live between 10 and 14 but they can live beyond that, depending on several factors including whether they are allowed outside, what their early experiences were, etc (like say for example if they was a stray like Ebony was, they might have been exposed to something nasty while on the streets, like we suspect Ebony was)
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Feeling tired. I was awake very early this morning.
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If anywhere people are able to judge my potential right now, it's at my mental health care facility. Based on the work they offered me they do see a lot in me. Which feels like a lot of pressure to me. In the past this is where things often went off the rails, since I couldn't cope with high expectations.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

I spent so much effort for self devolopment in this summer, i will be travelling to istanbul on 21st in this month
Lets see how it goes lol

Actually breaking neurotic personality or behaviour is not a change, reaching your truself

But i don’t remember how many times i changed my identity, how i define myself
How i see others
I hope it is last lol , at least last way change , hopefully drawn my way can walk through it

My views on prohibited topics have changed from one pole to another pole lol

How many times unfriended people,how many times opened blank page lol

Feel like a man with no past,no land

I need to settle down tired of running but i have plans about moving oyt of this country after i graduate
At least i want to move with myself lol

If i write my life story into details i can call myself what kind of maniac i am
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

Never stop reassessing your beliefs and your opinions. Those who do become rigid and stop learning to some extent. The ability to think and learn can't be over-estimated, that's how mankind evolved I suppose. I'm tired of rain...can't believe I am saying that. Very unusual weather...usually so dry here.
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