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Old 09-04-16, 04:17 PM
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part II

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The idea is that guys and girls can't just be friends because sexual desire will always get in the way.

Is that true?
Only for males at the height of puberty.


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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part II

Ive always had male friends in band, i guess from fewer women playing brass instruments. really its possible.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part II

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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part II

For me just being friends sometimes works, but often at some point there is a hint of attraction. Sometimes it goes away, sometimes it doesn't. Thie female friend, I have had some level of attraction to her for a long time.

There are some signs the attraction might be mutual, but I also might be wrong. I know I have to be careful, but I've also known her well and long enough to know that she will be able to deal with it if it isn't mutual. She's a very down-to-earth personnwho doesn't immediately make a big issue out of things.

Asked her to have dinner together somewhere. She said she would love to, but that she didn't have a lo tof money so that it would be better for her to cook st her place or mine. So she's coming over tomorrow and that's cool.
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When I was a kid I was such a charming young man. Adults absolutely adored me. Then in high school I lost that due to developing social anxiety. Now I have the feeling that I start to regain that natural charm, which is awesome.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part II

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When I was a kid I was such a charming young man. Adults absolutely adored me.
Me too. But I will never forget the day my English comp teacher said to me “Ian, you can’t just coast through all of life with your smile and your honeyed words and your manners.”

Whereupon she failed me in the class for turning something in 5 minutes late such that I could not graduate from high school.

Mom was not pleased, but I actually liked summer school because I became good friends with two girls in the class, and we would hang out in the girls’ loo and listen to tunes, smoke, and...other stuff.

So a total win-win as far as I was concerned.


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Me too. But I will never forget the day my English comp teacher said to me “Ian, you can’t just coast through all of life with your smile and your honeyed words and your manners.”

Whereupon she failed me in the class for turning something in 5 minutes late such that I could not graduate from high school.

Mom was not pleased, but I actually liked summer school because I became good friends with two girls in the class, and we would hang out in the girls’ loo and listen to tunes, smoke, and...other stuff.

So a total win-win as far as I was concerned.


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Teachers always had difficulty punishing me. As much as I was misbehaving they still saw me as such a sweetheart. In English class the teacher was a very strict woman who often sent pupils to the principal's office. With me she couldn't.

I misused that position greatly. For example, I used to put on my headphones in class. She would ask me to put away my headphones and I complied. A few minutes later once again I would wear my headphones. That game went on and on without her ever punishing me for it.
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Teachers always had difficulty punishing me. As much as I was misbehaving they still saw me as such a sweetheart. In English class the teacher was a very strict woman who often sent pupils to the principal's office. With me she couldn't.

I misused that position greatly. For example, I used to put on my headphones in class. She would ask me to put away my headphones and I complied. A few minutes later once again I would wear my headphones. That game went on and on without her ever punishing me for it.
Lucky you Hermus - we had the most evillest of food technology teachers in the universe who would keep us in from break for the tiniest thing (literally even so much asother kids messing around and us getting the giggles about it, as well as keeping the kids acting out in for break if we got the giggles that was enough of an excuse to keep us in from break as well
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Lucky you Hermus - we had the most evillest of food technology teachers in the universe who would keep us in from break for the tiniest thing (literally even so much asother kids messing around and us getting the giggles about it, as well as keeping the kids acting out in for break if we got the giggles that was enough of an excuse to keep us in from break as well
We also had some quite horrible teachers. Another English teacher was known for sexually harrassing female students. Somehow he never was suspended or sacked.
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There are two songs I'm desperate to listen to and just can't find on YouTube. The first is guyana by manowar and the second is drifting by 4 non blondes.
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