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Old 09-06-17, 02:38 PM
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Re: Self hatred

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I have probably said too much now.
there's nothing you said that is in violation of our guidelines or that i find off putting.

people struggle. i'm glad your plans didn't work out. i've certainly been a planner myself, so i am in no position to judge another.

it is what it is. i'm glad you are in a better place now. xx
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Re: Self hatred

I have a past that bad things happened a lot, bullied and disrespected by others. Everyday was suffering and struggling and it all happened between when i was 12-18 years old.
I made a decision , i cut all my connections, relationships related to pass, whether it was good or not. I moved to another city ( for college) and i opened a blank page in my life. I forgot and locked up all old memories.
Now those years are looking like dark ages of my life which i dont want to remember.

Maybe similar kind of decision may help you . Try to remove everything related to past from your life.
And reborn , start from 0 .
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Old 09-07-17, 10:01 AM
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Re: Self hatred

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there's nothing you said that is in violation of our guidelines or that i find off putting.

people struggle. i'm glad your plans didn't work out. i've certainly been a planner myself, so i am in no position to judge another.

it is what it is. i'm glad you are in a better place now. xx
What I was worried about was this thread getting used against me at a later date, not guidelines wise but maybe members here finding me irl (idk if it's possible) then using this thread to harm me. Or people irl harming me with it.
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Re: Self hatred

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What I was worried about was this thread getting used against me at a later date, not guidelines wise but maybe members here finding me irl (idk if it's possible) then using this thread to harm me. Or people irl harming me with it.
If you dont let them , nobody can use anything here against you

I know how you feel , if people learn what happened to me in past, they can use it to make me feel worthless, disrespected and u scare to feel like that again

U only need to do one thing , you will say this to anyone who try to harm you with your memories

"yes all happened in the past , past is past and it has nothing to do with now .It all passed ."

If you don't show people , you can be hurted easily . They can't hurt you , it is all about your image that they see. If they see strong and stable person against them they won't try to hurt you because they will think it isnt possible to do.
But if you have an image like , you can be hurted . Then bad people will try to hurt you .
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