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Be kind; you just can't know what people might be going through in their lives outside of work.
Also (if you work in a larger place) don't get sucked into negativity and office politics that might be spread around by some "clique" of employees.
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As hard as it is try not to use emotions when dealing with people or work circumstances always take a step back and evaluate you next step. use logic and facts not emotions.
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Remember that a "yes" answer is not a guarantee of delivery. People use the term loosely these days. Always look for "how" something will be done. That's what makes the "yes" matter.
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Re: Share one piece of career advice with us

The most realistically way to get ahead is to work hard first and unfortunately also have to suck up and socialize with the bosses. Usually, with ample amounts of alcohol and laughter. You have to build a relationship spending time as a friend almost, whether you like them or not. That's the hard part for me.

Just my opinions from my own experience in the corporate world. I performed well at the hard work part. Just couldn't handle all the sucking-up, political socializing and BS. It's truly a game and the one's who play it the best get ahead. The hardest working and best performing are usually over looked if they don't play the game.

I've seen too many people promoted that weren't qualified or even particularly good at their current position. The one thing they had in common was they were very good at playing the game.
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Do not become friends with anyone you work with on Facebook and do not date anyone you work with.
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