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Re: Old Crushes
I can't believe it's been 7 years since I started this thread >
http://www.addforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=135417 It seems like yesterday. Time for an update. I never did contact her and I'm glad. Its been 40 years and I just realized all that time I'd been oblivious to one little fact. As I said before we never had any classes together or saw each other outside of school. I remember now that at the start of each term I might have passed her in the hallway between classes once or twice a week. Just seeing her in my peripheral vision for a brief moment gave me a bit of a rush. Every term after the first week I would never see her again as she purposely changed her route just to avoid me. I guess she thought I was creepy enough to deny me a 4 second glance out of a 40 hour week. I can see why. My ADD made it hard for me to communicate and resulted in social awkwardness. So now I'm pretty positive she wouldn't have appreciated hearing from me and I saved myself some embarrassment. I'm amazed that I glossed over that fact all these years. |
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Re: Old Crushes
It's amazing how somethings can take such a long time for us to get through our head when others take seconds.
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Re: Old Crushes
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I just didn't 'clue in' to what was going on at the time. |
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