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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

I just realized that I don't give a crap that i'm single. As long as I eat well, keep myself busy with the gym and other bits and pieces, I don't get emotional about being single at all. I'm living the single lads life and i'm actually enjoying it.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

Took Dex IR at 1pm.

By 1:15pm, I had the slight sense something was happening.

By 1:20, it was unmistakable...it was underway.


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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

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I just realized that I don't give a crap that i'm single. As long as I eat well, keep myself busy with the gym and other bits and pieces, I don't get emotional about being single at all. I'm living the single lads life and i'm actually enjoying it.
Another happy singleton here

When family and people at work are not trying to pair me off with someone else , either at work or saying join another dating site (which is what my mum keeps saying because she wants grandkids, when as far as I'm concerned Ebony and Tigger are my kids)
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

Seriously though, I dread the day when Ebony becomes too sick to be saved
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Seriously though, I dread the day when Ebony becomes too sick to be saved
I know. But those days come to all of us. Including our feline friends. But those days are a long way away, so enjoy the moments now instead of worrying.
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I know. But those days come to all of us. Including our feline friends. But those days are a long way away, so enjoy the moments now instead of worrying.
I don't want her to suffer more than she already did (the abusive scumbags who hurt her so bad - enough said!)

This is something that I fight with myself about, I did it with Tom and even though Ebony's a while away yet from having to make that decision every time Ebony gets poorly I fight with myself about "am I keeping her alive for selfish reasons" physically she's okay apart from her asthma, psychologically she still "regresses" on a regular basis because of those abusive scumbags

I just don't want her to know pain and suffering while living with me
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

I wish i have a time machine. I could change many things , i could prevent many things to happen.
Real life is not video game so every action has it's cost and u cant undone it.
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I wish i have a time machine. I could change many things , i could prevent many things to happen.
Real life is not video game so every action has it's cost and u cant undone it.

I know the feeling
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I know the feeling
i really dont want to think about things that i can't change(past)
but it isnt in my nature, i am so impulsive i can't accept losing , bad things that happened.
It is so weird feeling , when u know that u are doing something irrational but u cant control your human nature.
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Re: Come on In If You're Online And Say Anything: Part III

But at least we can learn from our previous mistakes. So we will never let same things happen again.

But there is one thing bad about it
I lose my entrepreneurial spirit, i lose my risk appetite as years pass

It is too complicated feeling , if u cant take big risks , u cant big win
but also experiences make me more careful and timid.

I really dont know how things go,
I have big dreams , big plans but i also scare to fail.

I am greedy and timid worst combination i guess

I need cheat codes of life
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But at least we can learn from our previous mistakes. So we will never let same things happen again.

But there is one thing bad about it
I lose my entrepreneurial spirit, i lose my risk appetite as years pass

It is too complicated feeling , if u cant take big risks , u cant big win
but also experiences make me more careful and timid.

I really dont know how things go,
I have big dreams , big plans but i also scare to fail.

I need cheat codes of life
Sadly, some people don't want to learn from their mistakes (not you, I'm talking generally)
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Sadly, some people don't want to learn from their mistakes (not you, I'm talking generally)
I guess those people didnt have to pay a big costs for their mistakes. Some people are lucky from born.

But i only know one thing , i am not one of them so i have to calculate every step that i take( perfectionism and OCD also plays a role in this )
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Sadly, some people don't want to learn from their mistakes (not you, I'm talking generally)
Do you have brothers or sisters?

I was only child and spoiled one.

I took everything i want until i leave my safe heaven(parents and home) and go to out world

I guess i am still trying to adapt real world.
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Do you have brothers or sisters?

I was only child and spoiled one.

I took everything i want until i leave my safe heaven(parents and home) and go to out world

I guess i am still trying to adapt real world.
Two brothers, no sisters (one brother has aspbergers - sp)

(Technically there's 4 brothers but 2 are on my dad's side and I have exactly zero contact with my biological dad's side of the family so I don't count them as brothers because I have only seen them twice and don't consider my biological dad as family)
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