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Old 01-11-17, 08:08 PM
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Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

I thought it would be interesting to see how many of you have experienced situations (pre-diagnosis or non medicated) where you felt that your symptoms never really affected you too much.

I must admit, I go through periods where I convince myself that I don't have ADHD. I do this by considering situations where i've actually managed to somehow cope, despite the difficulties.

College for example. I'm managed to get through the first semmester (almost), i've completed and passed every assessment with the exception of one, which i'm absolutely dreading, as it actually requires a lot of reading and research and is closed book, meaning I need to process a lot of information and memorize a lot of things (it feels like a lot anyway), which i'm hopeless at.

But anyway, there are times when I look back over situations and think to myself "if I had ADHD, I wouldn't have managed to do this, or do that".

Is it normal to feel that way sometimes? Or does ADHD affect you non stop, all of the time, in every situation?

I have an appointment next week to request an assessment, but don't want to second guess myself at the last moment as I have done before.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

I recall being in college for Bachelor's in Education and the non-math and non-science general education classes as well as the core Education classes being interesting and not having trouble at all.

Years later, I had a job teaching Adults in a Workforce Development Program and did well.

Life was very good during those times. What I wouldn't give to have even a fraction of that back!!
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

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I recall being in college for Bachelor's in Education and the non-math and non-science general education classes as well as the core Education classes being interesting and not having trouble at all.

Years later, I had a job teaching Adults in a Workforce Development Program and did well.

Life was very good during those times. What I wouldn't give to have even a fraction of that back!!
I'm going off topic completely here, but notice you take both Strattera and Welbutrin. Is that safe? I read somewhere that the 2 should never be taken together.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

Undiagnosed ADHD didn't seem to effect me negatively (I assume u mean) until around puberty. This coincided with added responsibility and pressure in life. Before that, life was all fun and excitement and ADHD probably greatly contributed that.

It just left me greatly unprepared for my life to follow. I had to learn everything else the hard way usually several times after that.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

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I thought it would be interesting to see how many of you have experienced situations (pre-diagnosis or non medicated) where you felt that your symptoms never really affected you too much.

I must admit, I go through periods where I convince myself that I don't have ADHD. I do this by considering situations where i've actually managed to somehow cope, despite the difficulties.

College for example. I'm managed to get through the first semmester (almost), i've completed and passed every assessment with the exception of one, which i'm absolutely dreading, as it actually requires a lot of reading and research and is closed book, meaning I need to process a lot of information and memorize a lot of things (it feels like a lot anyway), which i'm hopeless at.
Cue cards, yes it's a pain in the ***, but for memorizing essential. I used to have hundreds they work like a charm.

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But anyway, there are times when I look back over situations and think to myself "if I had ADHD, I wouldn't have managed to do this, or do that".

Is it normal to feel that way sometimes? Or does ADHD affect you non stop, all of the time, in every situation?

I have an appointment next week to request an assessment, but don't want to second guess myself at the last moment as I have done before.
I think it's very easy to think adhd isn't affecting us, mostly because all of the symptoms happen to everyone but to us much much more often.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

I think 'reverse' self doubt is common or at least possible. there are times when the whole theory on multi-tasking seems to be a breeze with me-even though I feel like I am pulled in a million different directions-yet somehow it seems like I am doing it with ease.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

I'm not really a multi tasker. Even attempting one task that doesn't interest me is severely overwhelming. I can sometimes force my way through a task I don't find stimulating, but I feel completely maxed out afterwards like my batteries are completely flat. I can obsess over something I do find interesting though and it can swallow up half of my day without me even realizing it.

Sometimes I know what I should be doing right now, but never seem to get there. It's like there's a veil between me and the tasks I need to complete. By the end of the day I realize there's so many things that I should have been doing that I just never got started on.

Most regular jobs these days require the ability to multi task. Employers want people who are efficient at prioritizing what needs to be done in the moment. I avoid these jobs completely, I would be all over the place trying to figure out what I needed to do "right now" and very few things would actually get done.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

ADHD probably always affected me, but I guess I had remarkable denial abilities.

Throughout childhood, I thought it was "cool" to have, perhaps because of the way it was presented to me. As a teenager, I flat out thought it had no affect on me, and if it did, it was only "good." Like I said: denial. In retrospect, ironically, it had the most affect on me when I thought it had the least. (But maybe that's not "ironic" after all; that's kinda exactly how denial works.)

It wasn't until my late 20s that I began to realize the negative impact it's had on my life, notably driving an automobile, in employment, and even social situations. I became a little bit resentful and bitter for a little while.

At this point, I'm pretty "neutral" about the whole thing. I certainly don't like the downsides of ADHD, and I'm not quite sure if there are any positives. (Maybe, maybe not. But it's not relevant to me anymore. I still have good qualities.) Oddly, now that I regard it neutrally, it's made it easier to deal with not only ADHD, but with life in general.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

Considering I only recently joined the "club", I'd say all the time before I was diagnosed. It can't affect you, if you don't realize you are affected by it, right?
Up until being diagnosed, things I did well, or places or times that I felt I was successful, I attributed to either hard work, or being gifted or just naturally good at something. If I failed at something, I only had myself to blame for it. If I excelled, I had myself to praise. I had no concept of ADHD, and how it impacted my life, either in a positive or negative way.

Of course, now that I know about it, I can look back and see the impacts of ADHD and how it affected the directions my life took. In that sense, there was never a time when it didn't affect me.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

There have been times when I sort of felt like I overcame the effects of ADHD and succeeded at things I might otherwise have not been able to do.

But I can easily see the effects of ADHD in my life, stretching at least as far back as age 7. I've never had a break from it. It's just that from time to time I can temporarily sneak my way around the symptoms and do great work.
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Re: Times when ADHD didn't effect you?

the short answer ? .......nope .....early school life, I heard "she's not working up to her full potential" every year all the way through high school .....(I test very high.....but the grind of getting good grades ....erm not so much ....)

self-medicated starting in freshman year in college, and oh my goodness ! ...grades went up ....focused in art classes, and actually accomplished things .....

self medicated for decades, couldn't figure out how normal people did it .....still can't figure it out .....have been legally and under the care of p docs for a couple of decades now .....and I've had the ups and downs of oh say, an extreme roller coaster....but lots of that was out of my control.....and life situations freaked me out so much that I made some very bad decisions ....

....but with people who believe in me, and that I had it in me to live up to my potential, medicated....and several years hard work.....I am actually getting somewhere .....


Only took me until I was 65 ....heh....

for many years starting early in grade school......I accepted that I was different ....but I thought it was cool ...I'm an artist, and artists are different ....I took pride in that ....I liked being different .....I didn't have the focus I needed, mind you....until college...then it was the self medication ....


but at the end of the day ....trying to make it as an artist with fairly severe ADHD .....is a tough road to go down ......interesting ? ...yup ....but easy ? or clear ? or normal ....nope nope nope .....
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