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Old 06-09-18, 11:57 AM
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Could the vet have done more to save Ebony? Should i have pushed for him to save her?
Midsy, you can't know for sure what would have been different.

It doesn't sound like the vet could have saved her.

If the vet had thought there was a chance to save her they'd have tried.

She probably would have been very sick.

And you'd have been worrying about taking her to the vet.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

Everyone's angry at me for not managing to save Ebony, I'm sure of it
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Nope, it's just you angry at yourself for something you couldn't have changed. Nobody else is angry with you, not one person.
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NOPE! Not me! Well heck...me ever getting angry with My The Midsy-Widsy-Mid-Mids is just about as likely as me ever winning the lottery that I never enter!

AKA...it's not gonna happen, so you can walk right past that stinky thought!
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Everyone's angry at me for not managing to save Ebony, I'm sure of it
That's not true.

I'm sure of it.



We've had to have at least 3 dogs put down because they were just too sick,

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I'm starting to detach from people for longer periods of each day.

I can't stop listening/paying attention to the voices. It is not ideal. Despite my meds getting doubled for the weekend. It's like my body knows it's the weekend.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

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I'm starting to detach from people for longer periods of each day.

I can't stop listening/paying attention to the voices. It is not ideal. Despite my meds getting doubled for the weekend. It's like my body knows it's the weekend.
Please try to force yourself if possible to not detach from others. Spending time connecting with others will help distract you from the voices in your mind. Being detached only gives you more time to listen to and start to believe them.

Please try anything that may help you to not listen or pay any attention to the voices. The more you listen and pay attention, the more power they will gain over you. Remember the voices are bad and they donít deserve your attention. They will only lie and try to convince you theyíre true.

The more attention they get the more they will want. The voices arenít you, they are your conditionís. Please hold on and stay strong!

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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

I need to get to sleep but my brain will not quit it.
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This is why I sedate myself to sleep every night. Doctor approved.
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Re: The what's bothering you RIGHT NOW thread Part V

I feel ignored by some of the members on the forums and I gotta admit, it hurts my feelers.
There's one person in particular who's been straight up ignoring me for several months now. And I'm too chicken to contact them to ask why. I have ideas. I've also changed on these forums so I'm not anywhere near the fun person I use to be here. I just decided to let it go, I can't please everyone.

But then I pour my heart out to some people, and then it just seems like out of the blue they no longer want anything to do with me and stop replying to me or thanking my posts or acknowledging me...and it's like...well dang! /sadface
So then I start ignoring them...because I figure they dislike me or something .

Also, it's a huge possibility that this is all in my head. My sleep has been crazy weird this past week. I was oversleeping all week last week (couldn't get enough!!!)...and now I'm back to not getting enough of it. I didn't sleep at all last night...only got several hours of it the night before that.

I'm probably just blowing things out of proportion here because my mind is so frazzled haha.
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I feel ignored by some of the members on the forums and I gotta admit, it hurts my feelers.
There's one person in particular who's been straight up ignoring me for several months now. And I'm too chicken to contact them to ask why. I have ideas. I've also changed on these forums so I'm not anywhere near the fun person I use to be here. I just decided to let it go, I can't please everyone.

But then I pour my heart out to some people, and then it just seems like out of the blue they no longer want anything to do with me and stop replying to me or thanking my posts or acknowledging me...and it's like...well dang! /sadface
So then I start ignoring them...because I figure they dislike me or something .

Also, it's a huge possibility that this is all in my head. My sleep has been crazy weird this past week. I was oversleeping all week last week (couldn't get enough!!!)...and now I'm back to not getting enough of it. I didn't sleep at all last night...only got several hours of it the night before that.

I'm probably just blowing things out of proportion here because my mind is so frazzled haha.

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I feel ignored by some of the members on the forums and I gotta admit, it hurts my feelers.
There's one person in particular who's been straight up ignoring me for several months now. And I'm too chicken to contact them to ask why. I have ideas. I've also changed on these forums so I'm not anywhere near the fun person I use to be here. I just decided to let it go, I can't please everyone.

But then I pour my heart out to some people, and then it just seems like out of the blue they no longer want anything to do with me and stop replying to me or thanking my posts or acknowledging me...and it's like...well dang! /sadface
So then I start ignoring them...because I figure they dislike me or something .

Also, it's a huge possibility that this is all in my head. My sleep has been crazy weird this past week. I was oversleeping all week last week (couldn't get enough!!!)...and now I'm back to not getting enough of it. I didn't sleep at all last night...only got several hours of it the night before that.

I'm probably just blowing things out of proportion here because my mind is so frazzled haha.
Probably. Sometimes people have things in their own lives going on. I forget the thanks button myself half the time. Not used to a forum that has that. I've been really busy and not posting as much recently because life. It happens. I'm with you on the sleep troubles. It really needs to stop because I've already started with the mood swings.
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Sometimes people have things in their own lives going on.
This.

I'm an attention hog (haha who'd of guessed! ). Sometimes I forget life doesn't revolve around me. /self centered

Also...especially over the last couple of months...I've been feeling like these forums are dying (especially the "chit-chat" area which I use the most). And sometimes I'll wonder why no one is replying to something I've typed up...or something someone else has typed up. But then I'll go see who's all online...and I'll only see that just a few people are, and it's like...well /duh. No wonder no one is replying...no one is on the forums! lol

I need to unfrazzle my frazzled up brain.

Also...frazzle.
Yeah I like that word. I need to use it more!
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