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Old 03-03-19, 08:01 PM
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the person I always wanted to help in the past is the person I can't, so....

the person I've always wanted to help in the past in my mother.

and while I disagree with some, I am in the mindset that my mother deep down loves me, one reason I say that might be selfish for object constancy and to alleviate anxiety and nihilism (which I think nihilism is just not thinking she does)

however I fully accept I can not help her. all of the defense is from her and well, I'm not her.

so, I'll be there for her in emergency situations and watching movies, that's kind of it though. I've allreaddy told her that her commands are not appropriate behavior and if she does so I will continue to do so.

so, I can't help her, it's time to help myself. to do behaviors that feel good for me and are good for me.
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