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Old 11-11-17, 12:00 PM
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Ebony and Tigger too
I'm breaking my already broken bank, but ok.
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Y'all are too cute! Maybe we could start a go fund me to get you two together and we could all chip in a little money.
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Old 11-11-17, 03:02 PM
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Re: Being ignored on dating sites

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I know right? The post office should deliver people too! I'd have a first class stamp with your name on it.
You sound smooth fraser. Since your smooth self doesn't show in person at first due to nerves, how about you join a group to make friends. Then have those friends set you up with someone by exchanging your phone number with a girl so can have text chats with her first? Have them tell her you're really shy at first so don't make good first impressions but you're a great guy overall. Shell be more forgiving in the beginning that way.
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Old 11-11-17, 03:41 PM
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Y'all are too cute! Maybe we could start a go fund me to get you two together and we could all chip in a little money.
It's in my humble opinion that we should all get together and have a big..... PARTY, i'll be the DJ.
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Old 11-11-17, 03:42 PM
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You sound smooth fraser. Since your smooth self doesn't show in person at first due to nerves, how about you join a group to make friends. Then have those friends set you up with someone by exchanging your phone number with a girl so can have text chats with her first? Have them tell her you're really shy at first so don't make good first impressions but you're a great guy overall. Shell be more forgiving in the beginning that way.
Smooth? Cheesy? I suppose it's up to interpretation. My biggest failing is being a heart-throb and women perceiving it as creepiness.
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It's in my humble opinion that we should all get together and have a big..... PARTY, i'll be the DJ.
A bunch of ADHD people and a cool DJ? That is one party I would go to! I'll sit with my drink and do what I do best, look awkward and observe from the sidelines.
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A bunch of ADHD people and a cool DJ? That is one party I would go to! I'll sit with my drink and do what I do best, look awkward and observe from the sidelines.
Oh me too!! We can have our own mini party at the table with all the other awkward people!!
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Smooth? Cheesy? I suppose it's up to interpretation. My biggest failing is being a heart-throb and women perceiving it as creepiness.
What do you mean by heartthrob? I just had another look at your pics and if it's looks you are talking about I genuinely don't understand what you think is wrong with your appearance
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Old 11-11-17, 04:23 PM
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A bunch of ADHD people and a cool DJ? That is one party I would go to! I'll sit with my drink and do what I do best, look awkward and observe from the sidelines.
You certainly will not! You're a VIP. You'll be in charge of telling everybody where the party is. Everyone there will like you (or they'll get flung out on their backsides by bouncer Fuzz)

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Oh me too!! We can have our own mini party at the table with all the other awkward people!!
You'll be standing guard at the door looking for any un-suspicious, none-ADD behaviour.
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What do you mean by heartthrob? I just had another look at your pics and if it's looks you are talking about I genuinely don't understand what you think is wrong with your appearance
Believe me, I take a million different pictures before I find an "ok-ish" one.

By heartthrob, I just mean I fall for women far too easily. Which of course women just see as "stalkly". (not that I blame them)
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Believe me, I take a million different pictures before I find an "ok-ish" one.
You may just be unphotogenic. I have that curse, as well. A million pictures and finding my "good side" or at least "not so bad side".
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You may just be unphotogenic. I have that curse, as well. A million pictures and finding my "good side" or at least "not so bad side".
Same here, you don't want to see photos of me the most attractive photos I get of me is the ones where Ebony or Tigger are in the photo and they're the most attractive part of the photo
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Same here, you don't want to see photos of me the most attractive photos I get of me is the ones where Ebony or Tigger are in the photo and they're the most attractive part of the photo
To be fair though... those cuties would make any mere human look awful by comparison. You seem to get away with it ok though.
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Ooh, we're having a party?? Can I join? I would be the designated annoying extrovert bothering all the more introverted people at Fuzzy's table, but I don't want to get thrown out by her. So what can I do? I mean if we want live music I can totally play Silent Night and the Tetris theme on the piano, but that might get a bit repetitive after a few plays...
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Re: Being ignored on dating sites

I experienced same problem on okcupid and tinder.
For example i have 3 likes but i need premium account to see who liked me on okcupid
is it that hard to send first message, i don't want to pay for a stupid dating app in order to see who liked me.
Or when i get a match at tinder nobody sends first message,even if i message i do not get a message back.
Woman always expect first message or first step from man , it isn't fair.
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