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Re: Memory Issues
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I think life is just too fast with too much going on for me to make many lasting memories without a conscious effort and ruminating over it. I really need a several year vacation to Tibet spent learning from and chilling with the monks! Last edited by Greyhound1; 10-25-19 at 12:34 AM.. |
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Re: Memory Issues
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![]() Nice but not essential. You know thoughts come up because they have been thought a lot, intensely and recently, and because of the context. Neurones that fire together wire together. This endless damned loop of repeating garbage can be an issue though. The application there is actually really easy: Keep your attention on sensation, not thought. Narrow it down-- find a default target of attention (ie breath sensation at the opening of your nostrils). Observe that and from time to time check that you have not drifted. When your attention has been snared by a thought acknowledge is and turn back to noting your breathing. Many teachers forget to tell you that there will always be lots of thought that you can sense in the background. Thoughts persist because we re- think them. When we do the above we stop stoking that cycle, and they sort of fade away. It is nice once it gets quiet. The other big mistake is thinking we need to go somewhere and beautiful. I have had a shocking run since the end of 2011: divorce, and a real breakdown of my bipolar. I had 3 outbreaks of it, and 4 admissions as an involuntary patient. That's really pretty embarrassing really. I got pretty hostile and wrote quite a few nasty letters. However I noticed that this was not what I aspired to, and I was letting down my teachers. So when I was admitted, I largely focussed on the illness, and its correlates, and on teachers. It surprised me that I could meditate in that situation and keep aware of self instead of just getting fused with the emotion. However, i could, and it sped up my discharge, and it really has reduced my tendency to anger. This all helps stress too.
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