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Old 07-07-14, 10:26 PM
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Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

Seeing one of the traits of add/adhd is being impulsive, has anyone here had a three some or some other sexual experience they thought at the time would be good but it turned out not to be so good?
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Old 07-08-14, 08:25 AM
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No, It turned out as good as I thought it would! But it had nothing to do with impulse or my disorder!
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

I know I'm not a man but I have had many sexual experiences which were less than desirable, related to impulsive behaviour...
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

I've never had a threesome but I've done some rather stupid things (or rather with very stupid people) not exactly out of impulsiveness but more out of boredom...
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

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I know I'm not a man but I have had many sexual experiences which were less than desirable, related to impulsive behaviour...

and me as well, just not during the threesome!
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

Each impulsive action was yet another stepping stone that led to my next impulsive learning opportunity. Some were definitely of a higher quality than others, and I still wonder how I lived through a few, but each had their place. And I'll just leave it at that.
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

Come on Un spill your sordid history to us.
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

Sorry, abs. I'm still teaching a few of those skeletons how to dance, and have some sore a** toes from the attempts. When they're ready to bust a proper move, I might spill 'em.
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

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Come on Un spill your sordid history to us.
Huh.... I'm amazed this thread is still up let alone encouraged by a mod.

@OP 3 Somes are fun. Herpes isn't. Wrap it up.
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

This is a legitimate topic and open and honest discourse is encouraged.
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

Safe sex is also encouraged.
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Re: Impulsive behaviour and three somes.

I would imagine promiscuity and inappropriate sexual adventures, may feature quite highly for some with ADHD, due to impulsiveness, seeking excitement, hypersexuality, hypersensitivity, low self esteem and the high connection with drug and alcohol abuse.??
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I'll admit to one fabulous episode in Berkeley in 1982. Most of the frolicking occurred in the amazing pool house of this fantastic rambling house, owned by some wacko psychiatrist / psychologist couple. I was 20 years old, living overseas as an au pair. I was friends with the au pair who worked for these people. One weekend, M's cousin flew up from L.A., and the cousin invited a visiting QANTAS crew over for a few margaritas. The party started Friday night, and went til Sunday. Unbelievably good fun.

I remember at one point floating about in the pool, looking up at the stars through the glass roof, listening to Joni Mitchell (there were underwater speakers). I was laughing at how utterly stoned I was, and watching a half dozen naked people messing about in the hot tub. What a FABULOUS cliche it was. Just like a Mamma's and the Pappas song come to life!

This was the last of the good old days. The worst thing that could happen back then was getting pregnant. (There was medication to fix pretty much any of the STDs.)

But you know, things changed completely in the early 80s. I remember reading the SFO Chronicle, c. 1983, and the first news articles about this then-unnamed "gay epidemic" that was ripping through the Castro, killing young vibrant men almost overnight. Jesus it was scary. AIDS pretty quickly straightened up all sorts of licentious behaviour.
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Hey, if you can't hide the family skeletons, you might as well make them dance!
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