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Old 07-09-11, 07:15 AM
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on the open forum that "I feel Member X dislikes me" ?

Is that within guidelines?
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Old 07-09-11, 07:26 AM
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Re: Can I say...

I'm not an expert but I don't think you can put it that way. I got in deep do do and I didn't even mention a name specifically.
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Old 07-09-11, 07:56 AM
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Re: Can I say...

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on the open forum that "I feel Member X dislikes me" ?

Is that within guidelines?
Can't be me

but maybe PM member X and ask about it?
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No, I want Moderator Input
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Old 07-09-11, 07:59 AM
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errrhm pm a moderator about the behavior of member x?
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It's a hypothetical.

Not in reference to a specific member. I'm looking for a general rule.
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well, why didn't you say so :P
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Re: Can I say...

We prefer that that is not done by name.

1. It's a private issue, the other person more than likely doesn't want their name mentioned in that context so that your friends will rally around you and s/he would feel shunned.

2. We of all people know what it's like to feel rejected, pointed at, made fun of... it'll creep into this forum, but something this blatant would overtake it.

3. I'd put it under the following guidelines, it is really discourteous and nothing good will come of it:


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Re: Can I say...

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I'm not an expert but I don't think you can put it that way. I got in deep do do and I didn't even mention a name specifically.
Yeah, well saying Brob(3-1) is a smelly old f@rt was cutting just a little close to home
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To further reinforce what Eyeforgot posted (and thank you to the member for originally asking this question), I encourage our members to refresh their memories when it comes to all of our guidelines. As it pertains to this topic, I would like to highlight a few additional points from the guidelines (color highlights are mine):

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Re: Can I say...

Does this kinda sorta mean like...

Member WXYZ : "I think Member ABC is a tool."

Member RS-TUV : "No. It's really Member DEF who blows goats."

Member G-HIJK : "Wait. This is really total Bull Sheet."

Ditto on that.

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Does this kinda sorta mean like...

Member WXYZ : "I think Member ABC is a tool."

Member RS-TUV : "No. It's really Member DEF who blows goats."

Member G-HIJK : "Wait. This is really total Bull Sheet."

Ditto on that.

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