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I received an email today from my professor with knowledge of a job opening. The nature of the job seems to be within my skill set, and it's something I've wanted for a while.
My professor forwarded me the email from the contact, describing what the position required, the boss' personality, etc. I was alarmed at this statement about the boss: Quote:
Alas, I still wonder if I should entertain this and try to get an interview. At any rate, I'm starting my own business and feel like that's where I want to go. What are you thoughts regarding the boss and my assessment of her? Am I right, wrong, or neither? Please provide a non-critical honest assessment.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
Tough doesn't necessarily mean she's mean. In my opinion there are bosses and there are leaders. Hearing a lot of one-on-one direction could be good if she's a leader.
I guess you could ask what 'tough' means? It could mean how she approaches problems or it could mean results.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
Anon, honey, that would probably describe me, too. One-on-one attention is good if it's quality feedback.
I wouldn't be cowed by that. Interview and see what's what. If she's a beeyotch, it won't be the end of the world. You can always turn it down and you can always leave if you don't like it.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
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I don't want to go through the hiring process again, and then have to leave. Plus, I have my business in the planning process. I have one client in two publications this week. If it were six months ago, I would have probably jumped all over the opportunity. I guess there are many ways to describe a tough boss, who works one-on-one. I may have to interview with her just to see.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
You have determined that you need good communication in a working relationship. You may not figure out if she's a b**** in an interview, but you will figure out how well she communicates. And how she reacts when you ask for clarification. Those are two things you can find out in an interview.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
It never hurts to just go and do the interview. You may not be able to learn all that you need to know about this boss but at least you will have a better picture whether you want to do this.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
I don't know. Maybe I'll say I'm interested.
I just did some research on my potential boss, and her work is cutting edge. I think she's probably considered a leader in her field. I guess there's a reason why she sets the bar very high.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
You know, an interview is a two way street. It's as much about interviewing a potential boss as it is about a potential boss interviewing you. If you meet the qualifications and think that it's a good job, apply. You'll be in a better position to say that YOU don't think you are a good fit after meeting with them. It certainly can't hurt to do the foot work, ask some questions, and see where things settle. Don't over think it based on very limited information.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
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If I'm starting my own business, then why go?
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
I did miss the comment about starting your own business, but still, I don't see why the two are mutually exclusive since you didn't specifically frame the question as this or that. Keep in mind what group of people you are talking to here, we aren't exactly know for our listening skills!
![]() I can only speak for myself, but I need questions to be very specific or I'll completely miss the point. |
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
Sorry. I thought you were starting your own business as in it was a goal for the future, not here in the present.
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People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. - Maya Angelou Down a hole, up a rope Down some pills, up some hope This karma machine only takes quarters New age soldier, new age soldier - Matthew Good -Canadian Musician With Bipolar Disorder Cyclothymia & ADHD |
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
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I'm not even sure why I started this thread.
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Re: Need your Input on This Potential Job Opportunity!
I emailed my professor back and told her to put me in touch with the guy. I hate making decisions.
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