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Old 07-09-12, 05:23 PM
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Hi all Anthony here this is my first post even though I have been a member for awhile. I was wondering if there are A.D.D. websites for people who are interested in dating or meeting others like "US" and if not why don't we start a section on here? My last relationship which lasted over 3 years was the first time I was with a girl who was ADHD it was awesome from day one to say the least!! From our first date it was like we knew each other our whole lives I was blown away I never felt that comfortable the first time I met a girl in my whole 32 years of existence!! From her hyper focusing on me for months..countless texts and phone calls all day long which I didn't mind at all I thought it was adorable...we would both bounce off each other so to speak it was as she always put it a match made in heaven! I could go on & on forever about the amazing time we were together but I don't want to bore you if you were in my shoes you would understand
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

Cool idea.Its good to meet people who think like your self and can understand.
I am also alone at the moment.
But I dont like beeing single...

But its hard to explain to some people the struggle
with time management,forgetfullness,inattention and so on...
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

Now that I think of it, I have never met a person with ADHD(-PI) in real life. At least not that I knew of. So, I haven't the faintest idea of how it would be like to have an ADHD girlfriend.

Are there any ADHD-couples on this big forum? If so, how is it like?
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

I dont know,I have several friends with ADHD and that is pretty cool for a ton of reasons,and its easy to understand them.
Today I went on a date with a guy without ADHD,
and it was ok,but I felt I had to explain all the ADHD related stuff to him
and I thought " How the .... do I do this! ADHD is part of who I am and
totally infiltrated in my personality ..."
I kept forgetting stuff in the conversation and I was like;
"how do I explain that I cant remember what happend last weekend
but will remember it later,or that I have to take a cab to work because I`m late,
or that he have to speak slower so I can analyse what he says before I answer..."
There are things with my friends with ADHD that I instantly understand
and how and why it is realted to ADHD and they dont have to eplain
anything and such a relief...because things like that happen a lot.
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DOnt know how old you are but if you lived in jersey and are/were legal age me and you would have a blast ad/hd,dances around to ac/dcs shook me all nite long,lol Were I sign up Im 37 and from NJ male who is always having a fun an wild time if I can
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

ADHD dating sites? That would be insane!
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

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ADHD dating sites? That would be insane!
Insane like in awesome or what?

I think its awesome anyway
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I know to haveto explain to a non adder whats its all about and half the time ya get a smart *** answer denouncing it or put down and its used against you takes the **** and vinegar right out of the equation.
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

INSANE AS IN *UCKING AWESOME!!!! I LOVE ADHD GIRLS!!!! There's a pic of my ex who was adhd on my profile Oh my what a woman!!!
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Whooo dayam:0 her body is right!
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

I'm already thinking...Game Show Material.

The ADD Dating Game ?

Hmmm... Can Anyone Say "Chuck Barris ?"

Chucky Chucky Chucky

I thought you could.

Remember, It Could Happen.

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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

I can imagine an ADHD date night:

Me: *Goes into random ADHD girl's house*
Random ADHD girl: "How how you doing?" "What's your name"
Me: *Announces name*
Me: "I'll start the cooking"
Me: *Goes into the kitchen* "Hey, why the hell did I come in here?"
Me: *Goes back to the table*
Random ADHD girl: "Oh hey, there you are Mr. err?"
Me: *Announces name*
Random ADHD girl: "Oh nice name ! I'll go cook something up for us"

Aaaannd I can't finish the rest, can't be bothered.
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I'd like to peruse the official ADDForums singles thread. Somebody go start it, and make it a sticky.
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Re: AD/HD DATING SITES? If not let's start one on here!

Before or after we loose interest and or forget? Perhaps we should debate the topic which may or may not hold our interest!


If both people are ADHD who is going to remember what day it is, better yet what day time or place to meet, pretending for a minute either partner can make said decision to meet in the first place?


ADHDer of which I am married is either blissful wonderful or sucks the life right out of you - The problem being unless one is medicated neither knows where the relationship is never mind have a plan as to where it will end up - Two hyper will bounce off each other and two inattentive may never know the other is there.

Diversity is a good thing, all the time not just when it is convenient or novel

ADHD is no guarantee of success no guarantee of a failure either but unless one or both partners is addressing the impairing aspects of the thing it typically ends up being a struggle with ADHD issues squared.


Yeah have fun with that if you get lost I'll send ya a map if I don;t lose it or forget you ever asked for one.
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I've met one person so far through these forums, although it wasn't a romantic meeting.
We were both waaaaaaaaaayyyyyy behind schedule. Although we met several hours late, we both pretty much arrived at the same exact time.
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