The Unimaginable

[keliza]

On this forum I have mentioned my little sister many, many times. I've referred to her mostly as my little "space cadet", the yin to my yang as far as our ADHD goes.

I am completely devastated to tell you that she passed away this week.

I have never felt more lost and alone in my entire life.

If you pray, please pray for me and my family. And if you have any songs, quotes, etc. that you think may bring some comfort or peace, please feel free to share them here. I am absolutely inconsolable right now, and I do not think that comfort will find me for a long, long time, but any and every little thing helps. Thank you.

[crystal8080]

Oh Keliza


I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I send prayers to you and your family, and I hope it reaches you in good health.

In your grief, try to take care of yourself. You need to.

PM me anytime

Crystal

[crystal8080]

On Death
Kahlil Gibran

You would know the secret of death.
But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?
The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.
If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life.
For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.


In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;
And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring.
Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.
Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour.
Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?
Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?


For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?


Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

[Ocyan]

I'm so sorry for you r loss Keliza

But she is still there, she'll always be, as memories don't fade

If peace is within your heart, then so is she

[Unmanagable]

Oh, keliza. (((((Huge Hugs))))

You have my deepest sympathy. Thoughts and prayers of peace and comfort are coming your way.

Remember, we're here to stand by you:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Us-TVg40ExM

[mad83]

*big comforting hugs* That's horrible. The pain you are going through right now must be unimaginable!

[Rebelyell]

IM so sorry to hear that,I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers and just so you know,I'll be here if you need anything or just wanna talk Ill provide an ear.once again so so sorry

[ginniebean]

Keliza,

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine losing a sibling. (((((((hugs)))))))

[BR549]

I can't begin to imagine what you are going through right now.

I am so very sorry ((((HUGS)))) .

[Lisa_Mac]

Keliza - please accept my most sincere condolences. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

lots of love

Lxxxxx

[sarahsweets]

I dont habve th3 wrods ofr comfot by(((hug))

[sarek]

I wish I could think of anything that I could say. But I know nothing helps and saying that I am sorry to hear this sounds so small and weak in the face of what you are going through.

[Abi]

I am so sorry for your loss

[peripatetic]

my deepest condolences.

[Lunacie]

I lost my younger sister 5 years ago and I still miss her like crazy.

But I do have lots of great memories of her and the times we spent together.

It takes time to grieve, don't let anyone try to put a time limit on your feelings.

But don't spend every minute of the day thinking about awful you feel.

Cry sometimes, but laugh sometimes too about the crazy things you did

and the stupid stuff you fought about and the secrets you shared with her.

(((hugs)))