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Old 02-05-10, 11:13 PM
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Re: Detaching With Love

I began my practise by finding the smallest thing that was irritating me and trying to let it go in my heart.
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Re: Detaching With Love

Repeat this mantra:

I cannot control others, only myself and how I choose to deal with things.
Everything is NOT about me.

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Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes!
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Re: Detaching With Love

Ian i like the post you have shared to us.

Really is detaching love is getting some emotions so as not to worries some negative input that people tend to feed us.

I am sure now... that people who have hurt me along the way especially in my past is no need to think about and move on to the so called life.

Or life has its cycle = Happiness and pain.. Sadness adn Joy and so and so forth..
But it is always up to us, how to handle life with POSITIVE OUTLOOK right?
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Ian i like the post you have shared to us.

Really is detaching love is getting some emotions so as not to worries some negative input that people tend to feed us.

I am sure now... that people who have hurt me along the way especially in my past is no need to think about and move on to the so called life.

Or life has its cycle = Happiness and pain.. Sadness adn Joy and so and so forth..
But it is always up to us, how to handle life with POSITIVE OUTLOOK right?
It's all about letting go. Letting go is something I have to practise a lot.
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It's all about letting go. Letting go is something I have to practise a lot.
Yes you're right.. a part of letting go is one you learn to accept and understand things in the situation so as to move on....

Good for you..

I think I needed that as well..
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i cant help but be my inspiration every time I fall

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This is like a cool, refreshing drink of water on a hot day! Thanks so much...I get it! Love it....
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Re: Detaching With Love

Copied and pasted this to someone today - one person, one day, at a time.
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Copied and pasted this to someone today - one person, one day, at a time.
While you were doing that, I was considering stapling it to my forehead.
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Re: Detaching With Love

Hello Ian...i loved your quote. It just reminds of a beautiful paradise called "Love"!!
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Hello Ian...i loved your quote. It just reminds of a beautiful paradise called "Love"!!
Thanks anthonynelson I find it an integral part of love too. Although I look at love as a verb.
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Re: Detaching With Love

Detachment...well, I'm pretty sure that I have Attachment Disorder. I basically don't care about anyone or love anyone but myself. I'm pretty sure the reason is because there's just be too much pain and hurt in the past. I feel guilty about it too, because I feel like I'm letting people down. I just don't know what can be done about it.

If I ever get a divorce I'm determined to remain single, because it's not fair for the other party to fall in love, loving someone who doesn't love them.
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