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Old 01-03-13, 05:33 PM
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You might be right. If you've seen the documentary Bully (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bully_(2011_film), you'll see that school administrators are often clueless.
I'll have to check that one out! I only speak from my own experience, when some of the higher up school administrators were the parents of the kids doing the bullying. Fortunately, I had an opportunity to change schools which is how I finally got out of a bad situation.
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Re: Bullies

Bullies prey on those, who they see weak, to not be bullies you need to show that you are not weak. My temper keeps bullies away from me, I also Like how I have one black belt, and am working on a second, yet people don't think I can fight because I am skinny and never fight.
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Old 01-18-13, 12:22 PM
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Re: Bullies

bullying in my class is actually pick a students who acts weird (ADHD) and make them do silly things and laugh at them without they know it. actually only one student in my class is doing this, AND THIS STUDENT WAS MY BEST FRIED!!! and he wan;t just making fun of me' he was also using me: he was (and still is) talking to me only when he wants to get a ride home, or he needs to copy from me in a test and when h wanted to do an assignment together with me' which ment that i was doint it all and h was just taking credit, and so on...

until know i've sucked this up, but know i had enough of it!
I asked the teacher to move away from him and now he can't copy from me in tests (all i need is to ask the french teacher to move away from him)
and i am not gonna do any assignments with him.

know he sits near the smartest student in my class, but this student won't let him copy anything.

so know if everything goes by the plan, his grades will become lower and lower, and if he won't make it to the class of the "bad" students, next year will be very tough for him, since we will not be in the same class

luckily, for this kind of bullying all you need to get your revenge is to say NO
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Re: Bullies

I used to have a bullying problem, even getting kneed in the groin in the bathroom by the 'ringleader.' I just couldn't come back with anything. Fortunately, that jerk is now being homeschooled, and the rest sort of calmed down, after my parents overheard me.
Not fun, trust me, they were even stealing my fricking lunch!
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Re: Bullies

I was bullied in middle school because I had ADHD but no medication. And it was the time when ADHD wasn't as common as it is today. Kids would make fun of me because I couldn't talk about a single topic for more than a minute or when we had a test or something everyone would tell me stuff like "just don't think of dancing penguins" which of course made me think of dancing penguins the whole test. But now I am medicated and it is a lot better
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Re: Bullies

Causes for bullying are so multi-dimensional that it's really hard to pin down a common element, but the most shared trait in bullies is lack of empathy. Some people think that bullies have low self-esteem and attack others to enhance feelings of power and worth. In reality, true sufferers of low self-esteem do not harass and intimidate others. Bullies are generally self-assured in their lifestyle. They tend to surround themselves with people that are much like themselves, closed-minded to contrarian behavior. Their lack of empathy impairs them from positive judgment of someone who behaves differently to them. They do not sympathize with the humiliation they cause because they are emotionally blind to the pain that their victims experience.

I won't go into obscene detail but I feel like I've got a decent grasp on the psyche of bullies and wouldn't mind answering questions if anyone has any.
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Re: Bullies

It seems I attract bullies do victims of bullies send out a vibe or flowers attractin hornets.
when it happens to me it take me time to realize it N if I do think someone is starting or

going to be a bullie I can nver nip it in the bud for fear of makin a mistake so could you
advise about the attraction please
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Re: Bullies

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Re: Bullies

bullying will only stop when "I" recognize it and "I" tell it to stop, no matter who it is happening to, And/or who/what(could be business large or small,) is doing the bullying, If enough "I" get together we will look like a sharp pointed picket fence.
N we can prik them back by putting them in the place. where is a smily face when I realy realy need one lolololol stay well all, N remember it your going to bully someone practice on the first bully you meet.

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Re: Bullies

I really hate to say it, but bullies will always be around and there is not much anyone can do about it. Take a look into our evolutionary history... Bullies have always been around and always will. It is human nature to seek influence over your hierarchy; this is not to say we cannot rise above such a challenge and attempt to limit it as much as possible. ADD may multiply the stress you feel from being bullied, but I encourage people to not just sit there and 'deal with it'

It is people like that who irk me. Take a stand for yourself! Even if you require the help of other people; you will not regret it when the burden of the bully is lifted off your shoulders and your self esteem is restored.

(I've been a bully, I've been bullied, and I've helped limit bullying)
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Middle Schoolers Win International Award With Anti-Bullying Video

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Re: Bullies

I always was different and i got beat up just because at home and at school i was bullied in a different way but the only major time i remember is when the ring leader put gum in my hair! And what did the school do at the time? Promote he girl to the 8th grade so shed leave sooner!
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Blaaaah bullying is so pathetic
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Bullies have serious problems too just look at the mental cases in power,the police, bosses etc something isn't alright w a lot of people in power and something stinks very much so in London.
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