What is your ultimate Goal in Life? What is your biggest fear?

[pith30]

My goal is to write something that touches alot of people.
My greatest fear is that no one will ever understand me.

[fixmeplease]

My goal is to be okay. Content. At peace with myself.
My greatest fear is death.

[lostdog65]

My goal is to be understood.
My biggest fear is to be understood.

Eric

[brandilyn]

My goal...to be a good person and live a humble yet fulfilling ,simple life.To raise my girls to become intelligent,independant,kind women.

My biggest fear?To be honest,I dont really have one......
Im just living.Taking it all in.Rolling with the flow.......

[Sorceress Pol]

My goal is to finally accomplish one of my plans.
My fear is to never get any of them done.

[fasttalkingmom]

Ultimate goal is to raise mentally (somewhat) health kids, hey I'm a Mom

My biggest fear ? I'll drive a school bus till I die

[stori813]

My goal in life is to do what I've been doing finding joy and being happy.

My greatest fear is to lose my mind in old age.

[Crybaby1898]

my biggest fear is dying alone and my goal is to do something good for the poeple .

[Jenjor]

My ultimate goal in life is "serenity", for myself and my child.

My biggest fear is that there is no turning around the direction this country has been heading for the past several years....

[Johna]

Goal to one day see myself as other see me.
Fear not living to see my children grown because one day I fear thatI'll get so tired of this world and do a final call.

[pith30]

Thanks for your honest and personal answers. I just asked because, I happens to everyone i think, I have been caught in an Existentialist sate of mide latly and it helps me to hear what others want in life and i am happy that people on this site are able to find meaning in life. Just another thing, do you guys think that having ADD and the struggles that come along with it make us more grounded and realistic in our lives than those who dont have to deal with their mids being an everyday part of their lives (in the sence that they dosent occure to them to think about why they do things the way they do) where as most of us have to try really hard to focus and attempt to sort out our thoughts on a daily basis? Thanks again for being open, it gives me hope that life is meaninfull because we all have things to live for.

[Nova]

What is the point in being Enigmatic.....when someone asks such a question....
Alright...I'll bite...hard....
You want to know what my ultimate goal is...
Nada with 'work/school' goals...
They're just fillers for me...
I actually have romantic goals...
Gee..Blow me down...huh?
I want...need...more than anything in this universe.....
Someone that entirely 'gets' me
Mind...body..soul......
No matter the mask....
It's still 'A Me'
I need to belong with someone who belongs with me.
Just remember before y'all start squacking...
I am Southern..
It doesn't mean I'm weak....
It just means I know what I really, really, really, want....and it also means that...
there are 'very few people' who believe the same
Moi

[ADDMuscle]

I like this thread and the posts people have made.

My goal is to find a wonderful woman to live together with who I can share stuff with and who will understand me, and vice versa. Also I want to be able to have money enough not to worry and only living happy life.
Biggest fear is being rejected and alone.

[Lazygit]

My goal - Find lasting happiness
My biggest fear - One of my kids dying

[Gourmet]

Hi Pith. My goals and fears have changed so many times through my life as I have matured.
At the risk of sounding like a Miss America contestant, I am going to try express this.

My greatest fear is THE phone call.
Quite frankly, it keeps me from answering the phone on most days. If I know you and love you, I know how precious and valuable you are. To know someone has suffered and not left me peacefully....that's it. The worst.


My greatest goals. To leave a statement behind...leave a piece of me that will hang around for a very, very long time.

I want to leave my family and friends secure in knowing that they were cared for and loved by me .....that there is no doubt in their minds that they are valued.

To help bring forth a positive change in someone's life. To be remembered as a genuine spirit, knowing that others enjoyed and received my presence and valued me for me alone..not because of some good deed or measurement of worth.

Adorn someone's wall...adorn someone's spirit.
Adorn someone's coffee table or child's shelf....adorn someone's thoughts and ideas.

I chase this goal through creating, writing, teaching and loving.

I know myself and my inner value, and I want the human, earthly connection that says..."Yeah, you matter and I am so happy you are here".

~gourmet~