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Old 01-20-11, 11:30 AM
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Oh, and another me too for the age 11 thing. Yay for not being a freak!
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Old 01-20-11, 11:34 AM
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I've heard there were women with high sex drives, but figured it was a myth. I've never met one that I know of. Definitely never have dated one.

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Old 01-20-11, 11:46 AM
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Oh, they exist all right, but they often have problems too due to their high sex drive leading them into dodgy situations. Although the stories they put in the porn mags are made up
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I think it's important to keep in mind that being obsessed about sex is completely normal. If it hadn't been our species would have died out a long time ago. Nobody is in control of their sexuality. We can merely channel it in less or more helpful ways. Some have a stronger sex drive than others. That's all.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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Guys don't have sole claim to active libidos.



I'm a girl...

I'm not offended...

Lol I'm not surprised, just gotta cover the bases!
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I agree and have the same issues all you guys are facing... High sex drive here and its still going into my 40s .....
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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...or porn, for that matter!
I used to be terrible for this but then went onto antidepressants and it seems to have killed it off a lot. Which is a real shame for my husband, who thought he'd married a nymphomaniac
When the libido goes from over drive to literally nothing its difficult, as the BF starts thinking I lost interest in him... but fact is, I just lost interest in sex.

The pill was a godsend for dampening the sex appetite, though!


(And porn... it's sorta good for a laugh just as often as extra stimulation...)
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Yes, I have that problem - the husband took a long time to adjust and said he felt like I'd gone off him. Since I came off the Prozac it comes and goes, but I haven't been off it for that long. The sex thing was a lot of the reason I came off it - I got sick of making up excuses!
Yep porn definitely has its comedy side!
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

All I can say on this subject is that it's pretty sad to have to wait until 28 to have your first orgasm!!! After 10 years of trying to figure it all out I've finally got it down though. I blame the past 10 years on Prozac and thank heaven every night for switching to Ritalin!
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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When the libido goes from over drive to literally nothing its difficult, as the BF starts thinking I lost interest in him... but fact is, I just lost interest in sex.
I am currently going through this with my wife and it's making for a real real difficult situation.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Definitely goes in frequent spurts. There are times I can't get enough sex or porn and times when I'm apathetic about both. When I'm really ready to go I hyperfocus while looking for whatever kink is of the most interest at the time. I was also voluntarilly sexualized at a young age, around 10-11.
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I was also voluntarilly sexualized at a young age, around 10-11.
Wow. Interesting.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I have such a high sex drive that I have wondered if it could become an unhealthy thing. For a period I wondered how much masturbation was to much. I felt enabled by the internet and the ease of live sex cams. I became worried when my sexual interests started to change. It is reassuring that I am not the only one dealing with / dealt with these issues.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I became like this at nine years old and as a kid Iwondered why I was such a horn dog and felt what was wrong with me that I had to be like this.Im still kind of like this my anti depressants make it a little harder but I really need the meds or else id be a total mess.I also fear aids so its been a real deterent to me to be a real male nympho or ***** or whatever you wannna call it.
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Does anybody here with ADHD find that they have an unconquerable sex drive? This is something that had a problem with since I was 11 and first experimented with masturbation...I haven't stopped since lol seriously though, it has taken over my life at times and I can't help but ogle woman in the street. It sounds pervy but I just can't help these intrusive thoughts. Does anybody else have this problem?
I'm ADD-PI, and I have the libido of a rock. You give me some of your magic dust and I'll give you some of mine.
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