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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

It runs hot and cold for me.

Some days I want left the hell alone. Some days I am a nympho. I definitely want it more than my husband, usually.

When I was on Paxil it was awful. I was a horny beast and I couldn't get anywhere on that stuff. How is that supposed to help depression? I was very sexually frustrated all the time.

A few years ago, like in my early 30's, I was always wanting to get laid. I would try to get it every night if I thought he would give it up. If I didn't get it, I would get mad and pout.
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Definitely goes in frequent spurts. There are times I can't get enough sex or porn and times when I'm apathetic about both. When I'm really ready to go I hyperfocus while looking for whatever kink is of the most interest at the time. I was also voluntarilly sexualized at a young age, around 10-11.
Same here, though I don't really know what you mean by being "voluntarily sexualized".

Well, I'm a male with ADHD-PI/SCT and while sex is on my mind much of the time, frequent masturbation is not necessarily up my alley. Don't know if this has anything to do with my neurology but I did not stimulate myself (to the point of reaching an orgasm) until the age of 17 and only really developed the habit at around the age of 18 - and I'm not devoutly religious or anything like that. Even then, I only really do it twice a week in order to avoid aches.

As for my overall libido, I get crushes but never really engage in much major flirting - even when the girl is not only attractive but making subtle advances. If more SCLs could post in this thread then maybe a trend or two might be spotted.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

10-11 years old seems to be a # that keeps popping up... anyone else younger...?

is my observation correct that the add-i's aren't so horny while the combined's are?
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I'm inattentive, but that's difficult to answer; going solo can be such a habitual thing that whether you want to almost doesn't come up; and with a partner, anxiety can play a part, along with a lot else. The stimulant medications have made internet porn way to compelling in the past, and they seem to have that affect in actual life as well, but there, it's harder to tell. Maybe we're worn out by our imaginations. I wonder if I'll regret posting this.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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10-11 years old seems to be a # that keeps popping up... anyone else younger...?

is my observation correct that the add-i's aren't so horny while the combined's are?

Fleisch! Issue the thread poll and draw up the venn diagram.

Tommy! For god's sake draw the blinds.


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They've been drawn all winter; I'm getting dopamine!
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I'm as inattentive as they come, and I'm as horny as they come too.

I know I'm going to regret this the second the edit option disappears.
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I'm as inattentive as they come, and I'm as horny as they come too.

I know I'm going to regret this the second the edit option disappears.
I object!!!! U r no wheres as horny as peripatetic. She has the worst case of combined type ADHD possible and she has never blanched once. U think I have been pervy here. I dare u to let me text u LaVieEnRose, u will b left crying wondering how the hell such a perv even exists
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Someone once posted, I can't remember who, that it is common for many ADHDers to self medicate with masturbation. I had never really thought about it in this way, but can see what they mean. I have masturbated as a way to fight boredom, and now realize It was self medication..

Sex is on my brain constantly, and it seems to be increasing with my medication. I always have "that feeling" and want sex. I can't really get enough. I've thought about asking for Adderral because I heard that it will decrease the urge.

I love sex, but don't want to go through life consumed with it. Especially since it bothers me when I'm not getting it. I don't want to see other women and imagine myself with them, because I know I can't be with them. Plus, I love my wife and want to be satisfied with her. Not always wondering what some other woman would feel like, and be like.

Anyway, I'm not sure what the answer is. I don't want to kill my drive, I just want to temper it a bit. I can masturbate twice in a day, and have sex that night, and still feel the urge a couple of hours later. Vyvanse has worked well for me, but I may have to switch to something else if it is having this kind of effect on me.
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Someone once posted, I can't remember who, that it is common for many ADHDers to self medicate with masturbation. I had never really thought about it in this way, but can see what they mean. I have masturbated as a way to fight boredom, and now realize It was self medication..
OMFG!!! - *light pops on* That explains so much. It was more than a craving. It was like a whole body surge of contentment and relaxation and focus. Gawd I luv sex
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Someone once posted, I can't remember who, that it is common for many ADHDers to self medicate with masturbation. I had never really thought about it in this way, but can see what they mean. I have masturbated as a way to fight boredom, and now realize It was self medication..

Sex is on my brain constantly, and it seems to be increasing with my medication. I always have "that feeling" and want sex. I can't really get enough. I've thought about asking for Adderral because I heard that it will decrease the urge.

I love sex, but don't want to go through life consumed with it. Especially since it bothers me when I'm not getting it. I don't want to see other women and imagine myself with them, because I know I can't be with them. Plus, I love my wife and want to be satisfied with her. Not always wondering what some other woman would feel like, and be like.

Anyway, I'm not sure what the answer is. I don't want to kill my drive, I just want to temper it a bit. I can masturbate twice in a day, and have sex that night, and still feel the urge a couple of hours later. Vyvanse has worked well for me, but I may have to switch to something else if it is having this kind of effect on me.
Stimulants definitely increase sex drive in probably the majority of people. I'm taking Wellbutrin which is a minor stimulant and even that has mildly increased my libido. OTOH, it was a bit low because of depression to begin with... and it's always been either average or even slightly below-average.
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Women in there 30s to mid 40s is when they hit there sexual peak where men hit it at 18 and by 40 we need viagra or a new corvette to stimulate the ol pencilIt doesnt matter adhd or not thats when a womans sex drive is highest at between those ages.
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Women in there 30s to mid 40s is when they hit there sexual peak where men hit it at 18 and by 40 we need viagra or a new corvette to stimulate the ol pencilIt doesnt matter adhd or not thats when a womans sex drive is highest at between those ages.
This is fact. It didn't help that my ex was 5 years older and that I started smoking so that I didn't feel the impulse anymore instead I just smoked it off. Seriously if u want plenty check out a female around 40, just don't complain when she b****es u don't make love to her enough.
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Guys cant win we either dont make enough money for them,or love or give them enough attention or we are smothering them.I think Im gonna take up smoking,pass me a newport,djarums are good too.I cant remember the brand it was a canadian cigarette,it was so freaking minty it opened the sinuses,it cost me like 10 bucks for the pack.It wasnt nat sherman or Dumiers either.
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Oh man, that might explain why my next door neighbor - women in her early 30s always stops by my place to give me baked goods...she's nice and all, but I don't think that's the only thing that she wants to be baking in the house.

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