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Old 01-21-11, 06:51 PM
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I think especially if a women is in her 30s wants kids ,cant find the right man getting nervous cause bio clock is ticking.THis is 1of those that will pounce on ya.I had a date this past year and Im glad it didnt work out she was talking kids and sex and her bio clock and I wa slike uh oh red flags.Im not sleeping w some 1 to just give them kids and then Id be on the hook for everything.OH my god kids would ruin my life it would be disasterous.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Man! I gotta find a woman who will at least go 4 coffee with me. The last woman I asked was a stripper and she had 2 return to her city which was like 4 hours away so didn't have the ime. I'm gonna ask that cute bar-girl next. She was smiling at me when I was admiring the stripper. - now gentleman that is effing awesome. I want some of dat
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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I think especially if a women is in her 30s wants kids ,cant find the right man getting nervous cause bio clock is ticking.THis is 1of those that will pounce on ya.I had a date this past year and Im glad it didnt work out she was talking kids and sex and her bio clock and I wa slike uh oh red flags.Im not sleeping w some 1 to just give them kids and then Id be on the hook for everything.OH my god kids would ruin my life it would be disasterous.

Even worse, you've been dating a woman for about two months and she decides to tell you that she has 5 year old son. What do you do then? Keep seeing her or flee the states?
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Dont know havent made it that long w a woman to find outMoms gotta protect the kid tho,too many men might lead to mass confusion for the child.
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Dont know havent made it that long w a woman to find outMoms gotta protect the kid tho,too many men might lead to mass confusion for the child.

I was out getting the mail the other day, and this 2 to 3 year old kid called me "Daddy." I just looked at him in shock. "Um yeah, not gonna happen little one."

The Mom's response, "No, that is not your daddy." And "the look" from wedding crashers.
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Oh, and another me too for the age 11 thing. Yay for not being a freak!
LMAO! I'm not a freak after all! Yay!
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Guys don't have sole claim to active libidos.



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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Yeah, I think I assume that all women are conservative that way, just to keep myself on the safe side socially. But then I go on thinking it when I'm not thinking about it, and wind up actually thinking it.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Er....ok, all this talk of sex is starting to make me feel horny :P
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

LOL

A few years ago, it was so bad, that I sometimes would be too horny to sleep. I would try to get my husband in the mood and he would be like, "no, we have to work in the morning" or "I just took a shower I don't want to have to take another one."

I went to the doctor (actually I was there for a cold or something, or I would have never had the guts to ask) and I asked them if I could buy some of that stuff they used to give guys in prison to make them not horny. They just laughed.

It seems to have cooled down some as I approach 40. Hopefully it doesn't get bad again.

It was BAD when I was about 30-35. I assume it was hormonal. I would be at work and literally thinking about getting laid all day. In fact a couple times I actually made the excuse I had to go to the post office or something, so I could sneak home at noon and get some relief. I swear, I had to buy batteries in the value pack.

LMAO I know how gross that is, and I am soooo glad no one knows me. I could never confess something that humiliating to someone I had to look in the eye.

Anyhow, if you are a woman who is 30 and suffering with this, it seems to get a lot better at like 37 or 38...hang in there honey!
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Before my ADD diagnosis I thought it was my high libido that was the problem as I was always being distracted by sex and eyeing off any legs in heels.

When I was on medication I stopped having the sexual thoughts and so my libido dropped to normal.

Now that I'm off all meds, my libido is high again, but not as high as I was when I was 18.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I also have vicious difficulty keeping my sexuality under control. It is very emotionally painful. My wife can't keep up, and I try not to upset her. I don't know what to do. Glad I'm not alone in this struggle.

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Since everyone else is being so brave: I don't think I've ever waited long enough to really know what kind of sex drive I have. Since I was about 18 I've rarely gone a day without getting myself off at least once (unless travelling or something). When I was in a relationship, it was either one or the other, or both.

Internet porn is sort of always there like junk-food (I posted elsewhere about quitting; so much for that. As little thrilled with it as I am, there just aren't that many free things to do when you've got a lot of time on your hands), so I eventually got in the habit of thinking something like, "well, no one's home, might as well." So I feel like I don't really know what kind of sex drive I have; for a long time I've sort of intercepted whatever desire I'd start to get, before it would feel like much of anything. I have mixed feelings about this. I don't want to make myself feel guilty, and you can really only read for so many hours a day; but I still have the feeling I'm aesthetically letting myself down, sort of making pork-rinds of my sexuality, desensitising myself.
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