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Old 03-24-11, 07:26 PM
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

SEX IS AWESOME...... with girls!
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Its really not funny to be hard up or desperate for sex.It just kills me that some people are married,got a nympho for a wife or gf etc and there just total duds.How do jerks an stix in da mud and all the fuddy duddy idiots get all the hot sexy women that have a high libido.Maybe I'll just join the priesthood the way im going dAMN
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.Maybe I'll just join the priesthood the way im going dAMN
What way are you going? Have you started looking at kids in a funny way too?
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

That was suppose to be funny! Hell to the nizzo w looking at kids.Hard up I didnt even realize I wrote that no pun intended BOOIIYooing!
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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Isn't that when you should play with yourself in front of him, show him what he's missing?(or... disfrutar en otro cuarto...)

Either or, once every two months seems scant. Does he have low testosterone... or something like that? Oh god, I'm so restraining myself from asking another question... *biting tongue*
I actually HAVE done that, in extreme sexual frustration, several times. He seems to enjoy watching this (depending what's on TV, I suppose), and I have got him to help out once I think. His theory is, I know what I like better than he does, so I might as well take care of business myself.

Well just because I know where my hot buttons are, doesnt mean I dont want him to love me up and touch me and kiss me!

When I was REALLY irritated with him, I put on a hell of a show, screaming, pulling the sheets off the bed, panting, etc, so it made his TV viewing more difficult, I'm sure. I hope so.

He likes me to do a "special thing" for him, but if he isn't going to reciprocate, I'm not going to do it any more.

I'm positive he isnt gay LOL. We used to screw all the time when we were younger and before the kids.

Of the two of us, Ive always been the more wild in that respect and he is the more reserved. I was always wanting to screw in the car, on a blanket under the stars, on the kitchen counter....strip for him, do crazy things in the movie theater etc. He is more of the "sex is what you do on Sunday night at 10 o'clock in your bedroom" type.

This has been a sore subject in my marriage at times, obviously. When you can get a man "in the mood" and he turns you down, or suggests you do "that one thing", and while you are, you hear him switching channels, or checking his text messages...it kind of makes you feel "less than desirable". LOL
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

This is why nobody should have TV's in the bedroom. It distracts from the real show.

I WISH my wife would do this, that's hot as HELL!

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I actually HAVE done that, in extreme sexual frustration, several times. He seems to enjoy watching this (depending what's on TV, I suppose), and I have got him to help out once I think. His theory is, I know what I like better than he does, so I might as well take care of business myself.

Well just because I know where my hot buttons are, doesnt mean I dont want him to love me up and touch me and kiss me!

When I was REALLY irritated with him, I put on a hell of a show, screaming, pulling the sheets off the bed, panting, etc, so it made his TV viewing more difficult, I'm sure. I hope so.

He likes me to do a "special thing" for him, but if he isn't going to reciprocate, I'm not going to do it any more.

I'm positive he isnt gay LOL. We used to screw all the time when we were younger and before the kids.

Of the two of us, Ive always been the more wild in that respect and he is the more reserved. I was always wanting to screw in the car, on a blanket under the stars, on the kitchen counter....strip for him, do crazy things in the movie theater etc. He is more of the "sex is what you do on Sunday night at 10 o'clock in your bedroom" type.

This has been a sore subject in my marriage at times, obviously. When you can get a man "in the mood" and he turns you down, or suggests you do "that one thing", and while you are, you hear him switching channels, or checking his text messages...it kind of makes you feel "less than desirable". LOL
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Damn, Joker Girl, sounds like your husband is a "Not-fu**ing idiot"! So just what is it that he is providing for you that makes it worth putting up with that kind of crap? I mean, come on, really???? Either the guy is scoring some on the side and has nothing left for you, or he has some serious issues. Either way, you should tell him that if he isn't going to provide for your sexual needs, then you will find somebody that will. IMHO anyway.
A bad sexual relationship leads to frustration and problems that end up coming out sideways in the rest of the relationship. If he really has that low of libido, he should go to a doctor and have his hormone level checked. Whatever his problem is, he should want you to be sexually fulfilled if he really loves you. You should love yourself enough to make sure that you are getting sexually satisfied, too. There is nothing wrong with that. It's an issue that you should talk about with him, and let him know that you will get that satisfaction one way or the other. I give the same advice to guys that say that their wife won't "put out". I don't understand how people can think that it is OK to deny their partner satisfaction in one of the primary motivators on our lives. Sex drive is genetically programmed in to us, and when we try to repress it, it only causes more problems.
So do yourself a favor, talk this over with your husband, openly and honestly, and make your needs known. If he really cares about you, then he will want you to be satisfied in every area of your life that he can. If that means that he needs to be a better lover than he should be willing to do that. If he can't do that, then he should be willing to let you get that satisfaction elsewhere, including with other people. This may spell the end of your marriage, or maybe just the opening of very new and interesting chapter in it.


btw, I know of a couple of supplements that can help with libido and sexual performance. No, I don't sell them myself. But two, in particular that can help are Yohimbe and Horny Goat Weed. Message me if you would like more info on them.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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SEX IS AWESOME...... with girls!
Shadow, you are so right, but you managed to leave out

SEX IS AWESOME.... with guys!

I don't know if we have any gay guys on here, but I wouldn't want them to feel left out. Not to mention the fact that there are probably women on here that would agree with my statement. And there are probably some women on here that would agree with both statements! Hell, probably some guys, too.
I just wanted to make sure that no one felt left out........
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SEX IS AWESOME.... with guys!
I'll second that as a hypersexual female.

It's terrible, I can't get enough.
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I'll second that as a hypersexual female.

It's terrible, I can't get enough.
I could help you with that..
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I think hubbys got the male menopause.

Im not gonna step out on him, I love him, and I know he loves me back. He wouldnt do that either. Im sure he is not messing around, although Im pretty sure sometimes when Im not home he "takes care of business".

I think it is a combo of lack of desire and laziness...he don't want to have to go to the trouble of romancing me and stuff, making out with me, all that sappy love business. If he takes care of it on his own, he doesnt have to worry about "was it good for you" etc, or my wanting to "cuddle" or whatever girlie thing I want after. LOL It's selfish, when you think about it. And I understand sometimes a person just wants to focus on their own self, but still.

Does Cialis make a person horny, or just give them a boner? Sorry if that sounds crude, but idk how else to say it.

I like the name of Horny Goat Weed. LOL. I just think its an awesome name for a vitamin.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

"His theory is, I know what I like better than he does, so I might as well take care of business myself"

Damn it! So there really are guys out there who get a kick out of guessing what will turn on their partner? Way to ruin things for the rest of us! (speaking in the sense of an individual's contribution to sexual discourse in general). I don't even know if this is what you're referring to, but I really hate it how there are all these guys out there broadcasting what men supposedly all want, and making life hard for those of us who don't.

"Whatever his problem is, he should want you to be sexually fulfilled if he really loves you....
Either the guy is scoring some on the side and has nothing left for you, or he has some serious issues. Either way, you should tell him that if he isn't going to provide for your sexual needs, then you will find somebody that will."

There is no way that this poster could know this much about your husband without being your husband. And what Treebeard advises you to say would really hurt whoever heard it; there would be many better, and few worse, ways of talking to the your husband. That does seem really unreasonable of him though. I think it's really not fair how, the way we live, the partner with the lowest libido seems always to get to call the shots. Like, 'hey, I don't want to do it any more--oh and neither do you, hope that's ok.'
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Does Cialis make a person horny, or just give them a boner? Sorry if that sounds crude, but idk how else to say it.
There isn't a simple answer for that. Technically, no. There's no chemical in it that makes you hornier. All it does is cause the dick to swell, or the vagina. But if you believe that it makes you hornier it will. The placebo effect is real and measurable. The widespread belief that Cialis is an aphrodisiac is self fulfilling. In fact, anything you believe will make you hornier will. This works for any medicine or fetish or juju. The trick is that you really need to believe it with your entire being. You can't just rationally fool yourself because that would be neat. You have to properly delude yourself for this to work. I'm sorry, but I don't know any good method for that.
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