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Old 04-20-11, 01:22 PM
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I know the feeling MLIW201.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I am almost always horny, save when I am feeling way too down to get it up!
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

Yes I'm a horndog at times.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

It's kind of a cruel twist. When I was younger I was the one who didn't want it as much. Holding the "goody bag" you might say. I can remember when I was real young, like 20 or even younger, being begged for it.

When I hit about 27-28, it was like a switch turned on and I wanted it more. Then when I got about 35, it got even worse. I think it's hormones. Anyway, by this time, my husband (who has never been a real horn dog anyway) began to want it even less. For a while I thought it was because I was getting fat or something, but it isn't. Or maybe it is, and he is a liar. LOL

I did get it on my birthday, which was a week ago, so I am appeased for a while. But if he won't give it up in the next couple weeks, I will have to resort to begging and making deals again. Deals I've made in the past include "you don't have to do any of the work" "You can get yours first" and "I will clean the van tomorrow" (which I didn't do).

I am not sure if that is more pathetic and sad, or disgusting.

Anyways, to the guys I gave blue balls to when I was younger, I'm really sorry now. I feel your pain.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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It's kind of a cruel twist. When I was younger I was the one who didn't want it as much. Holding the "goody bag" you might say. I can remember when I was real young, like 20 or even younger, being begged for it.

When I hit about 27-28, it was like a switch turned on and I wanted it more. Then when I got about 35, it got even worse. I think it's hormones. Anyway, by this time, my husband (who has never been a real horn dog anyway) began to want it even less. For a while I thought it was because I was getting fat or something, but it isn't. Or maybe it is, and he is a liar. LOL

I did get it on my birthday, which was a week ago, so I am appeased for a while. But if he won't give it up in the next couple weeks, I will have to resort to begging and making deals again. Deals I've made in the past include "you don't have to do any of the work" "You can get yours first" and "I will clean the van tomorrow" (which I didn't do).

I am not sure if that is more pathetic and sad, or disgusting.

Anyways, to the guys I gave blue balls to when I was younger, I'm really sorry now. I feel your pain.
I totally understand on the begging part of it.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

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Someone once posted, I can't remember who, that it is common for many ADHDers to self medicate with masturbation. I had never really thought about it in this way, but can see what they mean. I have masturbated as a way to fight boredom, and now realize It was self medication..
Completely agree. As soon as I started Adderall, the boredom-induced urges almost completely disappeared, leaving my sex drive normal and intact.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I'm a girl, and I suppose I've always had a rather healthy sexual appetite. I ALWAYS had sex fantasies, even when I was extremely young and didn't even know what sex was. I started masturbating when I was like 10 or 11, too, I think, although I don't really know the average age that people start, so I dunno if that's considered early or not. I never considered them out of control, however, until recently. Been watching porn/getting off way more than usual o.o.

However, when I'm on meds, I don't have any sexual appetite at all. I've never tried to have sex on meds, so I'm not sure if there really is any difference, but I never masturbate on meds or anything.
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

yeeeeeeea.. i started grade 7 in aus so that's when i was 11.

was always doin it alot.

but now i have a girlfriend and we have sex every time i see her which is at least every second or third day.
but sometimes it's boring... like don't get me wrong the sex itself is great she's always making a lot of noise and carrying on but usually i lose focus and start thinking about other stuff while humpin away... sometimes i think about food i'm going to eat when i finish or video games i want to play or sometimes i do random maths sums in my head just cause i'm bored..

the good part about being distracted during sex is that because i don't focus on the actual climax part then it takes a lot longer to reach climax, so to girls that's a positive thing or whatever cause they like it taking ages

i don't know but sex seems to get too repetative after like 15 minutes or so i just want to get it over with and do something else.

and even though i get sex alot i still need to beat off cause it's different and well... it gives me something to fiddle with and at least i can do it quickly then cause i only have to worry about myself not someone elses needs. usually i do it just to kill time, or cause im bored or stressed or just cause i have a spare minute.

plus i like being alone. i am my own best friend.... i don't want to get married i feel like life would be better growing old alone. so i don't know maybe that's also a factor to why i beat off so much when i could be gettin sex all that time.

anyone else like this?
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Re: Unconquerable sexual appetite

I had the TV on late one night while doing other stuff and this HORRIBLE show "for men" came on tv, it was REALLY sexist and pathetic, sort of like the TV version of Maxim magazine. Anyway, they were like posing these questions about women and sex and answering them and one was like, "what is the best medication to find in a woman's house?" and the answer they gave was amphetamine salts for ADD, because the side effect is uncontrollable sex drive. I hate to break it to them, but while I think Adderall has increased my sex drive, I wouldn't exactly categorize it as "uncontrollable." Then they were really playing up the big myth that women with ADHD are so impulsive they'll just jump into bed with you. It was really kinda gross to watch.
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the good part about being distracted during sex is that because i don't focus on the actual climax part then it takes a lot longer to reach climax, so to girls that's a positive thing or whatever cause they like it taking ages
FYI, it's a myth that is always a positive thing for women. I get kinda bored after a few minutes, and once I get bored and lose focus, that's it, it doesn't even feel good anymore, even starts to hurt. I'm always telling guys, "just so you know, you can finish whenever you want, you don't have to wait for me!" And the thing is I really like sex, I just usually like the beginning of it more than the rest. Even women without ADHD will often concur that going on and on forever is not usually what we want. I'm actually confused as to how that myth got started.
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Yeh medicated or not ive always wanted to sleep with all. Youd think at 30 it would slow down but now i have plots and background info, to my fantasies/desires. Krazeee stuff.
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Yeh medicated or not ive always wanted to sleep with all. Youd think at 30 it would slow down but now i have plots and background info, to my fantasies/desires. Krazeee stuff.
Sounds more like a plot to an American Pie movie.
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Ummm...yah. On or off meds...pretty much insatiable...for as long as I can remember.
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Sounds more like a plot to an American Pie movie.
i know this sounds crazy but....i have never seen American Pie =0 - and i consider myself a movie buff duh.
The flute in girl scene i watched on youtube though just cuz im a perv lol.
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i know this sounds crazy but....i have never seen American Pie =0 - and i consider myself a movie buff duh.
The flute in girl scene i watched on youtube though just cuz im a perv lol.
I went to band camp...AND played the flute (among other instruments) so I have always hated that movie because if I even MENTION band camp, I get the "This one time...at band camp..." and then, when they find out I played flute...LOOK OUT! LOL!
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